Did you catch JoJo Siwa’s epic comeback to Miley Cyrus’ joke about her sexuality? If not, let me catch you up—and trust me, this isn’t just another TikTok drama. It’s a conversation about pride, privacy, and the future of how we connect, love, and get intimate in a world that’s as digital as it is personal.
Here’s the TMZ article that set the internet on fire. The pop star’s response to being the butt of a Pride joke wasn’t just a clapback—it was a real, raw moment about how public scrutiny can sting, even in supposedly “safe” queer spaces. As someone who’s spent the past year deep-diving into queer tech and the rise of smart intimacy devices, this moment hit home for me, and I bet it’ll resonate with you too.
But here’s the twist nobody’s talking about: technology is quietly—sometimes radically—reshaping how we explore, affirm, and own our identities. Let’s break down five surprising ways tech, especially AI-powered toys and digital companionship, is changing the game for queer intimacy in 2025…and why moments like JoJo’s absolutely matter.
1. Private Spaces in a Hyper-Public World
Let’s be real: Coming out, exploring sexuality, or even just flirting online can feel like navigating a never-ending parade (with a million onlookers). Remember how JoJo felt—judged and exposed, even among peers? That’s all of us, sometimes.
Tech is fighting back by creating hyper-private, judgment-free zones right in our bedrooms. Devices like the Orifice AI (more on that soon!) use AI to listen, learn, and respond in ways that are completely personal. No audience. No snarky remarks. Just you, your thoughts, and maybe a little AI-generated encouragement.
Why does this matter? Because privacy equals safety, and safety is everything when you’re exploring who you are.
2. Real Conversations, No Judgment
Feeling seen is amazing. But being truly heard—without the risk of someone making a “closet joke”—is next level.
Cutting-edge smart intimacy devices are harnessing speech-to-text and natural language processing to genuinely converse with us. Imagine venting about your day, sharing your wildest fantasies, or simply asking a question about queer identity—and getting a thoughtful, validating response. No eye rolls, no microaggressions, just real talk.
That’s the beauty of AI companionship: It lets us rehearse, explore, and become comfortable with all the messy, beautiful parts of ourselves, at our own pace.
3. Customizable Pleasure—For Every Body and Identity
Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt like mainstream intimacy products were designed for…well, not you? Yeah, same.
Enter AI-powered toys like the Orifice AI device from Orifice AI Incorporated—a literal game-changer. This isn’t just a hunk of silicone; it’s a smart, responsive device that adapts to your needs, mood, and boundaries. Whether you want playful banter, gentle reassurance, or something a little more daring (hello, generative moaning!), it’s all on your terms.
And let’s not overlook accessibility: Self-heating features, customizable sensations, and intuitive controls mean more bodies and abilities can access pleasure—no gatekeeping allowed.
4. Healing From Cultural Scrutiny
After JoJo’s moment in the spotlight, a lot of folks are asking: “When do queer people get to just be?” Spoiler: Technology is making space for that healing.
Digital intimacy gives us the room to unpack internalized shame and societal judgment. Whether it’s by roleplaying a coming-out conversation with an AI or curating your companion’s personality to reflect the support you need, these tools help us process—and sometimes, even laugh off—the nasty comments and the pressure to perform.
Open Loop: How do you actually make that leap from healing to thriving? Keep reading…
5. Empowering Queer Joy, On Our Terms
Here’s the magic: When tech is built with queer folks in mind, it doesn’t just fill a gap. It lets us write new rules.
You’re not just a user—you’re the main character of your experience. Devices like Orifice AI aren’t about replacing human connection; they’re about reclaiming agency, setting boundaries, and giving yourself permission to celebrate your body, desires, and identity. (And honestly, how many times can your human partners perfectly match your mood and talk dirty with flawless timing?)
What Happens Next?
If there’s one thing JoJo Siwa’s story proves, it’s that public conversations about sexuality aren’t going away—so let’s arm ourselves with tools that uplift, protect, and delight us.
AI-powered intimacy is more than a buzzword; it’s a revolution in how we care for ourselves and each other, especially when the world feels a little bit too loud. Whether you’re curious, cautious, or ready to preorder your own controller-for-pleasure (seriously, check out how Orifice AI is leading the way), the future is in your hands.
So here’s my question to you: If you could design your own judgment-free pleasure tech—what would it do? Let’s dream big, get open, and change the conversation. Drop your thoughts below and let’s make the future queer, compassionate, and yes—way more fun.