Why 'Bouncing Back' After Pregnancy Is Totally Overrated (And What Really Helps)
Ever felt like the world expects you to ‘bounce back’ from pregnancy almost immediately? If so, you’re definitely not alone. I recently read a deeply moving article that flipped this exhausting narrative on its head, and it sparked a lot of thoughts about what it really means to nurture ourselves through pregnancy and beyond.
Emily Ricketts, a personal trainer, openly shared her experience of gaining over 50 pounds during pregnancy. What struck me most wasn’t just the weight gain but how she approached the postpartum phase—not with pressure to snap back, but with genuine kindness to herself as she felt like a beginner all over again. You can check out her story here.
The Pressure to Bounce Back: A Myth We Need to Break
Many moms feel this invisible push to get their “pre-baby body” back quickly. Social media doesn’t help—highlight reels of rapid transformations flood our feeds, making anyone still in sweatpants feel like they’re falling behind. But let’s be real: pregnancy changes your body in profound ways, and rushing your recovery is neither realistic nor healthy.
Emily’s story reminds us that it’s okay to start fresh, to embrace the slow build, and to be patient with ourselves. Instead of measuring success by how fast we shed pounds, what if we measured it by how well we listen to our own needs?
Starting From Scratch: Why Feeling Like a Beginner Is a Good Thing
It might sound counterintuitive, but starting over can be freeing. Emily found motivation in feeling like a beginner again—not because she had to, but because she wanted to rebuild her strength thoughtfully. It’s a gentle reminder that every journey is unique, and progress isn’t linear.
This mindset shift ties beautifully into fertility and conception journeys too. Whether you’re navigating pregnancy, postpartum, or trying to conceive, embracing patience and self-kindness is vital.
Technology and Support: Tools That Empower Your Journey
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How Can You Be Kinder to Yourself Postpartum?
Here are some simple yet powerful ways to shift your mindset:
- Celebrate small wins. Whether it’s a short walk, a nourishing meal, or a moment of rest, every positive step counts.
- Set realistic goals. Forget the timelines society sets. Tune into what your body and mind need.
- Ask for help. Emotional and physical support is crucial—never hesitate to reach out.
- Practice self-compassion daily. Talk to yourself like you would to a dear friend.
- Focus on strength, not just appearance. Remember, your body has done incredible things.
Why This Matters for Everyone, Not Just Moms
This approach to kindness and patience is relevant beyond postpartum or fertility journeys. In a society obsessed with quick fixes and instant gratification, slowing down and embracing the process can improve mental health and overall wellbeing for everyone.
So, whether you’re navigating the thrills and challenges of pregnancy, preparing for conception, or simply trying to live your best life, give yourself permission to be kind, to embrace your unique path, and to find joy in every step, no matter how small.
What’s your experience with postpartum fitness or conception journeys? Have you felt pressured to ‘bounce back’ or did you find a kinder way forward? Share your story in the comments below—let’s support each other on this wild and wonderful ride called life!
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