Why Asking for Help Might Be the Most Courageous Step in Your Fertility Journey

Posted on 27 June 2025 by Priya Nair 4 min

Imagine moving back home—not as a setback, but as a powerful step forward in your journey to parenthood.

Recently, a heartfelt story shared in Business Insider caught my attention with its raw honesty and inspiring message. A mother of two, preparing to reunite with her husband in Chicago, moved back in with her parents. At first, she thought she’d be on her own, managing solo parenting. But she quickly learned a transformative truth: asking for support isn’t a weakness—it’s strength. (Read the full story here)

This message resonates deeply, especially for those navigating the complex emotions and challenges of fertility. So often, the path to conception feels isolating, wrapped in societal myths about self-reliance and perfection. But what if embracing community and help could be the game-changer you need?

Why Is Asking for Help So Hard?

Many of us believe that to be strong, we need to do everything alone—especially when it comes to fertility. The truth is, fertility journeys are deeply personal, but rarely meant to be solitary. The pressures of treatment, timing, and emotional rollercoasters can make us hesitant to lean on others.

But think about it: Why should you carry such heavy burdens without relief? The mother’s story reminds us that seeking support, whether from family, friends, or even specially designed tools, is a courageous act.

Support Beyond People: The Rise of At-Home Fertility Technologies

Support comes in many forms today. Enter companies like MakeAMom, pioneers in at-home insemination kits tailored to empower individuals and couples. Imagine having a trusted ally in your home—a discreet, reusable kit designed for your specific needs, whether that’s working with low motility sperm or sensitive conditions.

MakeAMom’s approach is more than just technology—it’s about giving back control, confidence, and comfort. Their products allow you to take an active role in your conception journey, all while surrounded by your chosen support system.

The Power of Community and Shared Experience

Stories like the mother living with her parents before moving to Chicago reveal something essential: community transforms fertility struggles into shared strength. Whether it's grandparents helping with childcare or a partner offering emotional support, no one should feel alone.

Here’s how you can begin embracing support today:

  • Open Up to Trusted People: Sharing your journey can ease emotional weight and foster understanding.
  • Explore Fertility Tools: Consider options like at-home insemination kits tailored to your unique situation.
  • Join Support Groups or Forums: Spaces like Conceptera offer safe environments to connect and learn.
  • Accept Help Without Guilt: Whether it’s childcare, emotional talks, or help with appointments, support is a gift, not a burden.

Breaking the Stigma: Vulnerability as Strength

If you’re scared to ask for help, remember this: vulnerability doesn’t make you weak, it makes you human. It creates room for healing, growth, and connection.

The mother’s story in Business Insider isn’t just about moving back home; it’s about learning to be brave enough to accept help when you need it most. As you face the highs and lows of fertility, keep that lesson close.

Final Thoughts: Your Journey, Your Support, Your Strength

Are you ready to redefine strength in your fertility journey? Whether you’re considering innovative at-home options like MakeAMom’s kits or seeking support from loved ones, remember that asking for help is a powerful step forward.

Your path to parenthood doesn’t have to be walked alone. Embrace the support around you and the tools designed to make this journey more hopeful and empowering.

What’s one way you’ve found strength in asking for help during your fertility journey? Share your story below and let’s continue the conversation.


Inspired by real stories and backed by innovative support systems, the future of fertility is about connection, courage, and choice.