5 Powerful Lessons About Support From a High School Coach—And What They Mean for Your Fertility Journey
Posted on 25 June 2025 by Marcus Williams — 4 min
What does a surprise NBA Finals ticket for a high school coach have to do with your fertility journey? More than you'd think.
If you watched the recent ABC News feature on Coach Lori Martin, you probably felt that tinge of joy—and maybe even a tear—when Pryor High School’s beloved coach was gifted NBA Finals tickets by her adoring students. But, beyond heartwarming moments and viral videos, this story holds powerful lessons for anyone facing the ups and downs of conception, whether in a clinic or your own living room.
Let’s break down the 5 biggest lessons Coach Martin’s experience teaches us about the real power of support—and why it matters more than ever for your fertility journey in 2025.
1. Never Underestimate the Power of Community
Coach Martin wasn’t working for the applause—yet her community rallied around her, showing how vital unexpected support can be. The same applies to those navigating fertility, especially outside clinical walls.
- Finding a tribe—online forums, local groups, or friends who simply listen—can make all the difference.
- Studies consistently show higher success rates and better emotional health for people who feel supported during fertility treatments or home insemination.
Ask yourself: Who’s your team? Whether it’s a partner, family member, or a digital friend you’ve never met, build your circle. When times get tough, their cheers are your lifeline.
2. Celebrate Small Wins (and Big Ones, Too)
Coach Martin’s NBA Finals tickets were a huge surprise, but it didn’t come out of nowhere—it was the result of small, everyday wins with her students. On your conception journey, the milestones might look different, but they’re just as worth celebrating:
- Understanding your cycle for the first time
- Mastering at-home insemination techniques
- Getting through a tough month without giving up
Don’t wait for the big moment (those two pink lines) to feel proud. Every step forward is a reason to celebrate.
3. Privacy Matters—and Safe Spaces Do, Too
The video reminds us that the best support is often the most discreet. In fertility, privacy is sacred. For those using at-home insemination kits or exploring non-traditional paths, anonymity can equal freedom.
Did you know companies like MakeAMom ship all kits in plain packaging, with no identifying info? This thoughtful touch gives you a safe space to manage your journey on your own terms, just as Coach Martin created a safe haven for her students.
4. Expertise Isn’t Just For Professionals—We’re All Experts in Our Own Way
Coach Martin changed lives not just through drills, but by knowing her students’ needs. Likewise, you don’t need a medical degree to become an expert on your own fertility story:
- Keep a journal or app to track your progress
- Ask questions (in forums, at the doctor, or to support groups)
- Share your experience—what worked, what didn’t
You’re not just a bystander; you’re the coach of your own fertility journey.
5. The Ripple Effect of Kindness
When students surprised Coach Martin, it wasn’t just a thank you—it was proof of the ripples each act of support sends through a community. When you seek or give support during your fertility challenges, you change the storyline for someone else. That could look like:
- Posting your honest story on a forum
- Recommending a product that’s worked (like MakeAMom’s kits, which boast an impressive 67% average success rate amongst home users)
- Just showing up for someone on a rough day
The journey to conception can feel lonely, but you’re never walking it alone. Your openness might give another hopeful parent the courage to try again.
Ready to Build Your Support Team?
If Coach Martin’s story proves anything, it’s that none of us accomplish our biggest goals in a vacuum. Whether you’re using advanced home kits, navigating medical obstacles, or just figuring out what your options are, seek support and celebrate the wins—big and small.
Looking for a judgment-free zone to learn, share, and connect? Explore resources, real-life stories, and the latest in conception tech on MakeAMom’s official site, or join our Conceptera community today.
Because, just like on the court, the journey is always better when you have a team cheering you on.
What’s been your most surprising moment of support on your fertility path? Share your story in the comments—we’d love to celebrate with you!