How to Find Hope and Resilience When the World Feels Broken: 5 Lessons for Those on a Fertility Journey
Have you ever felt that the weight of the world was just too much to carry—especially when you're already facing your own uphill battles?
Scrolling through news headlines lately, it's impossible not to feel raw, heartbroken, or even powerless. In June 2025, the UN declared Israel guilty of 'extermination' in attacks on schools and mosques in Gaza (read the full story here). The words themselves are heavy. The reality? Almost unimaginable suffering. It's enough to make anyone question how hope can survive in such a world.
But here's the thing. Even in the darkest times, human beings have an extraordinary capacity to create, nurture, and fiercely protect life. That's not just a cliché—it's a calling. And it matters more than ever for those of us walking the often-lonely path of fertility challenges.
So, how do we keep believing, keep moving forward, and even grow stronger in the midst of global tragedy? Here are five inspiring lessons—drawn from both the world's harshest headlines and the everyday triumphs of ordinary people—designed just for you.
1. Pain Can Forge Unbreakable Bonds
When tragedy strikes on a global scale, we're reminded that pain isn't unique to any one person—it's universal. No matter where we live or what our story is, suffering connects us in a deeply human way.
If you're struggling to conceive, this reminder can be strangely comforting: you are not alone. There are countless others—near and far—walking a similar path, feeling the same hope, frustration, and uncertainty. Sharing your story or connecting with others can turn pain into a powerful force for solidarity. Many have found solace in online communities and forums where their journey is understood and honored.
Open Loop: What happens when you reach out? We'll get to that soon...
2. Hope is a Radical, Necessary Act
In the face of unspeakable loss—like that unfolding in Gaza—choosing to hope is not ignoring reality. It's a radical act of courage. Bringing new life into a hurting world might feel overwhelming or even selfish.
But here’s the secret: Choosing to create, nurture, and love is a rebellious answer to suffering. Every time you try, every time you believe in your future family, you're proving that darkness can't win. That's true whether your journey is short, long, easy, or heartbreakingly hard.
3. Innovation Grows in Tough Times
What drives so much of today’s progress in health, science, and community? Conflict and tragedy may devastate, but they also spark ingenuity. In the world of fertility, that spirit of innovation translates to new options and better support for everyone.
Take, for example, the story of MakeAMom’s fertility tools and resources. Born from the desire to give more people the power to build their families—regardless of circumstance—their at-home kits reflect just how far we’ve come. From reusable solutions to tailored insemination kits for unique challenges, this kind of progress is proof that even in hard times, people are working together to create hope.
4. Resilience is a Skill, Not a Trait
When you read about unimaginable challenges—like families in Gaza holding onto each other through devastation—remember this: Resilience isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you practice every single day.
Whether it’s making one more doctor’s appointment, trying a new approach, or just allowing yourself to rest, each step is an act of resilience. It’s okay to falter. It’s okay to grieve. But each time you pick yourself back up, you’re forging a strength that will carry you, not just through your fertility journey, but through life itself.
Remember that question earlier about reaching out? Here’s your answer: Connection is resilience. When you share your struggles, you’re inviting others to help carry your burden. Together, you become stronger than you ever could be alone.
5. Your Journey is Part of a Bigger Story
It’s easy to wonder if your desire to build a family matters when world events seem so dire. But every time you choose hope, every family conceived, every connection made—these are acts of defiance against despair. They are bright threads in the fabric of a world that desperately needs more light.
Don’t let the darkness win. Whether you’re trying to conceive with a partner, solo, or as part of a non-traditional family, your journey matters. And you’re adding to humanity’s story of survival, love, and resilience.
What Now? A Call to Hope (and Action)
- Connect: Share your story—here or elsewhere. You might be surprised whose life you touch.
- Learn: Explore innovative solutions, like MakeAMom’s resourceful approach, that empower people to take control of their fertility journey.
- Support: Reach out to someone who might be struggling. A single conversation can change everything.
In a world wracked by violence and loss, the courage to keep growing—literally and figuratively—might be the most revolutionary act of all. Are you ready to keep believing? Share your thoughts, your struggles, and your hopes below. Let’s remind the world that light is still possible—one story, one family, one hope at a time.