Let me confess something: At least once, I’ve pretended to be way more into it than I actually was. If you’re human, you probably have too. But what if I told you that faking it—moans, enthusiasm, maybe even joy—doesn’t have to be the norm anymore, either on screen or in our own bedrooms?

That’s the question that hit me like a plot twist after reading Jane Fonda’s recent interview at Cannes. You might’ve seen it: Jane Fonda says it was tough filming sex scenes and telling costars what to do without an intimacy co-ordinator. Fonda, Hollywood’s all-time icon, described navigating sex scenes before intimacy coordinators were a thing—awkward, unprotected, even a little dangerous. “Sometimes you had to coach your partner mid-filming,” she said. Yikes.

But here’s what’s wild: Fonda’s struggle to advocate for her own boundaries on set echoes what so many of us experience in real life. Whether it’s a hookup, a long-term partner, or just interacting with the wild world of digital pleasure, clear communication and consent are still way too rare.

We’ve All Been Jane (Minus the Oscars)

Think about it—how many times have you wanted to pause and say, “Hey, can we try that a bit differently?” Or craved a way to set rules and preferences without it getting weird or awkward?

It’s not just movie stars who need a safe, clear, and anxiety-free way to create intimacy. The #MeToo movement has upped the conversation about consent, but in bedrooms (and virtual spaces) everywhere, the tech hasn’t always caught up. Until now.

The Consent Revolution, Powered by AI

Enter 2025: The year when AI isn’t just writing scripts or making your playlists—it’s literally transforming what consent, communication, and pleasure look and sound like. That means:

• Voice AI companions who ask you what you want, and actually listen.
• Customizable settings for everything—intensity, mood, language—so you’re always in the driver’s seat.
• No more guessing or ‘faking it’, because you’re interacting with tech that’s as responsive and respectful as a well-trained costar.

To put it plainly: The awkwardness Jane Fonda described? The discomfort of telling someone what you like, or don’t? With the right AI, those moments are becoming a thing of the past.

But Does It Feel Real? (Spoiler: It Can Feel Even Better)

Here’s the secret sauce that’s flipping the script: generative moaning and AI-driven feedback. If you’re picturing clunky, robotic voices or awkward sound effects—think again. The new wave of AI adult tech (yep, the stuff making headlines) uses advanced computer vision, speech-to-text, and real-time generative audio to create an experience that’s… almost uncannily responsive.

Take the Orifice AI device, for example. (Total transparency: they sponsor this blog, but I genuinely geek out over their tech.) Their immersive, AI-powered toy acts like a next-gen gaming controller for the bedroom. It reads penetration depth, responds with lifelike moans, and even adapts its voice and verbal feedback depending on what you do and say.

What blew my mind? It doesn’t just give you what it thinks you want—it asks first. Casual or explicit? Playful or passionate? Your AI companion respects the boundaries you set, every single time. In a world where Jane Fonda had to awkwardly direct co-stars mid-scene, Orifice’s approach feels like a quantum leap for consent and agency.

From ‘Director’ to ‘Collaborator’: Taking Control Without the Awkwardness

Back in Fonda’s day, voicing your needs was risky—would you be labeled ‘difficult’? Would it kill the vibe?

Today’s smart intimacy tech lets you communicate limits and desires before anything gets started. That means you never have to choose between silence and discomfort again. Want to slow things down? Ramp them up? Switch the vibe altogether? Just say the word (literally—voice control FTW).

And for anyone who’s ever struggled to find their literal or figurative voice in the bedroom, you’re not alone. But customizable AI moans and verbal feedback aren’t just sexy—they help normalize communication, set better boundaries, and create safer, more satisfying play for everyone involved.

The Bottom Line: Consent, Communication, and the Pleasure Revolution

Jane Fonda’s story is a reminder of what happens when we don’t have clear guidelines, representation, or control—awkwardness, anxiety, even harm. But in this post-#MeToo, AI-driven world, things are changing fast.

So, why settle for ‘faking it’—on screen or off—when you can co-create something real, safe, and deliciously responsive? Whether you’re curious about how AI is changing adult tech, or just looking for ways to optimize intimacy and pleasure on your own terms, this new frontier puts the power where it belongs: in your hands (or in your voice).

What are your boundaries, and how would you want them respected in a future powered by AI? Drop your thoughts below—or, if you’re ready to try out the most advanced voice-responsive tech for yourself, check out what’s happening over at Orifice AI’s site. The revolution may just be one moan away.

Curious for more? Let’s keep the conversation going.