How Having Kids Helped Me Heal My Relationship with My Body (And What No One Tells You)
Posted on 28 July 2025 by Priya Patel — 4 min
I used to be terrified that pregnancy would trigger my eating disorder again. If you’ve ever struggled with body image or disordered eating, you might relate to that fear. How do you give your body over to something so intense and uncontrollable, especially when you’ve spent years trying to control and sometimes punish it? But what if I told you that, for some, pregnancy actually heals that relationship, transforming fear into awe? That’s exactly what I found after reading a candid and powerful article on Business Insider titled I worried having kids would trigger my eating disorder. It actually changed my relationship with my body for the better. It struck a deep chord with me, prompting me to rethink what it means to nurture not only a new life, but yourself.
The Fear That Lingers
It’s common to worry that pregnancy will awaken old anxieties around food, weight, and control. I remember lying awake, wondering if every craving, every body change, would send me spiraling. The pressure to “do it right” for the baby can feel overwhelming, especially when your own body is a battleground.
But then, something unexpected happened for many women who’ve taken the plunge: pregnancy became a radical act of acceptance.
Seeing the Body as a Miracle
The Business Insider story highlights how pregnancy can shift perspective. Instead of focusing on flaws or imperfections, women begin to see their bodies as powerful, miraculous vessels. This is not just poetic — it’s transformative. It’s about reclaiming agency and respect for a body that’s doing something extraordinary.
And here’s the thing — you don’t have to walk this path alone or face overwhelming medical costs to start your journey toward parenthood.
At-Home Insemination Kits: Empowering, Affordable, and Sustainable
For many, the path to pregnancy isn’t traditional. Whether you’re single, part of an LGBTQ+ couple, or simply exploring options that fit your lifestyle and values, at-home insemination kits can be game-changers. Companies like MakeAMom are making it easier and more affordable to take this step at home with reusable kits that cater to different needs:
- CryoBaby for frozen sperm or low volume
- Impregnator for low motility sperm
- BabyMaker for those with sensitivities like vaginismus
These kits aren’t just about convenience. They’re about empowerment—giving you control over your journey in the comfort and privacy of your own space, reducing stress and allowing a more personal, intimate connection with your body and partner.
Plus, they’re reusable and eco-friendly, aligning with a growing desire for sustainable family planning. This approach supports not just your mental and physical health, but also your values around environmental impact.
Why This Matters More Than Ever
In a world where fertility treatments can cost tens of thousands and where medical interventions can sometimes feel dehumanizing, having accessible, supportive options is crucial. Pregnancy — and the journey to it — should be a time of hope and healing, not fear and isolation.
Reclaiming your body’s power, as the Business Insider article so beautifully illustrates, starts with embracing the miracle of creation. It involves trusting yourself and your body’s wisdom. And sometimes, that means finding tools and communities that support you on your own terms.
Final Thoughts: Your Body, Your Story
If you’re someone who’s worried about how pregnancy might affect your mental health, especially around eating disorders or body image, know you’re not alone. Many have walked this road and found unexpected healing. It’s okay to feel scared and hopeful simultaneously.
Explore all your options compassionately. Learn about supportive tools like MakeAMom’s kits that can help you take charge in a gentle, sustainable way. And remember — your body is truly a miracle, capable of incredible things.
What’s your story with body image and pregnancy? Have you or someone you know found healing through this journey? Share below — let’s start a conversation about embracing our bodies in all their strength and beauty.
Inspired by this heartfelt Business Insider article, and with appreciation for resources that empower accessible and thoughtful family planning.