Who knew an NBA Finals ticket surprise could teach us so much about creating families—both on and off the court?
Let’s be honest: these days, it’s not often a “feel-good” story cuts through the noise. But last week, I found myself ugly-crying into my coffee thanks to this heartwarming video of Coach Lori Martin from Pryor High. Her students, deeply grateful for a lifetime of support, orchestrated the ultimate thank-you: NBA Finals tickets! (Move over, surprise proposals—this is how you do a viral moment in 2025.)
But as I watched Coach Martin’s jaw drop, the thought hit me: family isn’t always about DNA. It’s about support, encouragement, and showing up for each other—over and over. And just like student athletes need a coach, aspiring parents today need community, too.
So, what does a viral coach surprise have to do with modern family-building—especially in an era obsessed with tech, wearables, and instant everything? Turns out, a lot more than you’d expect.
1. The Power of a Cheer Squad: Why Support Networks Matter (Even More Than You Think)
Coach Lori didn’t get NBA tickets out of nowhere. She got them because she showed up, day after day, for kids who needed someone in their corner. And when it comes to starting a family—especially if you’re navigating fertility journeys, donor choices, or scary “what ifs”—your support network is everything.
But let’s get real: not everyone has a Coach Lori IRL. Sometimes, your “team” is a patchwork of friends, a few brave family members, maybe an online forum or two. And sometimes? You’re your own coach, Googling late at night, wondering if you’re doing it right. That’s not just okay—it’s normal.
Open loop: So, how do you find (or build) a support network if it doesn’t show up with confetti and TV cameras? Spoiler: Technology can help, and I’ll show you how below.
2. Teamwork Isn’t Just for Sports—It’s for Making Dreams Come True
Behind every “overnight” success, there’s a squad quietly hustling in the background. (Just like Coach Lori’s team orchestrated the surprise, right?)
Whether you’re trying to grow your family as a couple, solo parent, queer parents, or a group of best friends—everyone’s path is different, but nobody does it alone. Over the last year, I’ve joined parenting forums, fertility app groups, and Instagram circles where people share real talk, ugly wins, and even the hilarious fails. I’ve realized: asking for help is a power move, not a weakness.
Here’s the thing: Even if you start your journey from your own living room (hello, at-home insemination!), you’re never really alone. There are companies and online communities built to walk you through every step. (One secret weapon? More on that in a second.)
3. Modern Tech = Modern Community: How At-Home Solutions Bring Us Closer
Maybe you’ve seen the ads for high-tech fertility tracking or read about the latest AI embryo selection. But there’s something surprisingly intimate about the at-home revolution—where technology doesn’t just make things easier, but more personal.
Take at-home insemination. It puts power right where it belongs: in your hands. It’s discreet, cost-effective, and (best of all) you don’t have to trek across town for awkward waiting rooms.
I hear from so many readers who feel intimidated by clinics—financially, emotionally, or logistically. That’s why I love that there are innovators like MakeAMom’s resourceful kits offering step-by-step support for a variety of needs, from sperm motility issues to sensitivities like vaginismus. Their reusable kits and plain packaging make an often stressful process feel a little bit more “at home”—and a lot less alone.
4. Every Win Deserves to Be Celebrated—No Matter How Small
Was Coach Martin’s jaw-dropping NBA Finals moment epic? Absolutely. But it started with years of small, everyday wins—a pep talk, a high five, a quiet “you got this” after practice. Building a family can feel like a marathon of “almosts” and “not yets.”
Here’s what I wish everyone knew: There’s no such thing as a “minor victory.” Whether you finally scheduled a telehealth consult, got a positive ovulation test, or just made it through another two-week wait, you deserve to celebrate. (Pro tip: Mark it with takeout or a cheesy Netflix binge.)
5. The Real Surprise: You’re Stronger (and More Connected) Than You Think
Coach Lori had no idea what her students had planned. In the same way, you may not see right now how many people are quietly rooting for you—online, in your DMs, or even through innovative companies building tools just for journeys like yours.
So if you’re facing uncertainty, thinking “why me?”, or just need a reminder you’re not alone, take a beat. Your surprise “win” might be closer than you think—whether it’s a positive test, an unexpected DM, or just a good day after weeks of stress.
Let’s bring it home:
Family-building is changing. Technology is making it more accessible, more personal, and—dare I say it?—more hopeful. Community support doesn’t always look like balloons and TV cameras, but it’s out there—in your group chat, your favorite blog, and yes, even in the innovative products you choose for your journey.
So, what’s the “surprise” waiting for you in this season? Tell us below. And if you’re looking for new ways to feel empowered (or just want to see what’s possible from your own home), maybe start with a visit to a place that’s quietly changing the game—for all kinds of families.
Who’s your Coach Lori? Tag someone who’s been in your corner—or share your own “surprise win” in the comments! Because, honestly, we’re all just rooting for each other.