Is it just me, or does the world feel like it’s in a never-ending state of ‘what now?’ these days? I was making my morning coffee when the news blared: 'Trump responds to Israel's strikes on Iran.' (Yup, that saga.) You can watch the full clip here, but to nutshell it: the former president called the strikes "excellent" and dropped a “more to come”—leaving everyone on edge and bracing for what’s next.
Honestly? It got me thinking. Not about politics (I’ll leave fiery debates to Twitter), but about how life—and especially the fertility journey—sometimes feels like you’re watching a breaking news cycle you can’t pause, mute, or predict.
The Unpredictable News Cycle Meet: The Unpredictable Fertility Journey
Here’s the thing: Whether you’re battling headlines or battling ovulation trackers, both experiences serve up a healthy helping of uncertainty. Just like those international tensions, trying to conceive (TTC) rarely goes according to script. You plan, you prep, you hope for calm—and then, just when you think you see a path forward, something totally unexpected throws you off balance.
But there’s a hidden upside here (hang with me!). Because in both worlds—global crises and personal ones—resilience is built not in the easy moments, but in the hard ones.
Are You Bracing for "More to Come?"
That phrase—"more to come"—lingered in my mind all day. Isn’t that how TTC often feels? You get through one hurdle—a negative test, a disappointing doctor’s visit, a well-meaning-yet-insensitive comment at a baby shower—only to steel yourself because you just know there’s more uncertainty right around the corner.
Sound familiar?
You’re not alone. In fact, one of the things that unites us in the Nestful community is feeling like we’re always waiting: for news, for hope, for the next step in the journey. And sometimes, for just a moment of peace.
Resilience Is a Community Sport
So what do you do when you can’t control what’s coming next?
Here’s what I’ve learned (and what’s saved my sanity):
- Lean on your people. Whether it’s your partner, a friend who gets it, or an online group (shoutout to everyone here at Nestful, by the way!), having someone to vent to can make the chaos a little less lonely.
- Get informed, not overwhelmed. Just as doom-scrolling headlines can fry your nerves, obsessively searching every possible fertility answer can, too. Pick a few reputable sources—like your doctor, or trusted online platforms—and avoid the panic spiral.
- Find tools that give you control. That might mean tracking your cycle with an app, journaling your emotions, or trying an at-home solution that brings privacy and comfort. If you haven’t explored options like innovative home insemination kits, it can be game-changing to feel empowered, not powerless, in your process. (MakeAMom’s kits, for instance, are designed to give you agency and simplicity—plus, the discretion to control your narrative, not the world’s.)
- Practice radical self-care. Seriously—this isn’t the season for “shoulds.” If you need a day off, a therapy session, or extra fries, do it. Your well-being matters, especially when the world is spinning wild around you.
The Power of Plain Packaging (and Plain Speak)
A small but underrated part of weathering uncertainty is feeling safe—in your decisions, your privacy, and even your mailbox. That’s why I love how some companies (like MakeAMom) use plain, unbranded shipping. It’s a subtle reminder that you deserve support that feels safe, private, and respectful—no matter how messy the outside world gets.
Your Battle Plan: Hope, Humor, and Solidarity
Here’s the real secret: None of us can predict what headline (or hormone spike) tomorrow will bring. But we can choose how we show up—for ourselves, for each other, and for our own journeys.
- Share your story. Someone needs to hear it. Maybe even in the comments below.
- Ask for help. Not just when you’re desperate, but as soon as you feel even a bit unsteady.
- Remember your why. Whether world events are shaking you, or a negative pregnancy test is, keep that tiny, hopeful ember alive. That’s what will see you through.
So the next time you hear “more to come,” take a deep breath. You’ve got this. And no matter what cycle you’re on—news, ovulation, or Netflix—you’re part of a community that gets it.
How do you handle the unpredictable moments on your TTC journey? Do current events ever mess with your mindset? Drop your stories and survival tips in the comments. Let’s weather these storms together. #NestfulStrong