Pause for a second and think—when was the last time you heard someone say, “People just don’t want kids anymore”?
Maybe it was at a family dinner, scrolling through social feeds, or as part of a never-ending (and sometimes judge-y) news cycle. The world loves to talk about birth rates, doesn’t it? But what if I told you this whole narrative is missing the real story—and that, for many, the desire to build a family is stronger (and more complex) than ever?
The Question We Should ALL Be Asking
A new report from the United Nations Population Fund, as explored in this CBC news feature, is flipping the script on what’s causing fertility rates to plummet worldwide. Spoiler alert: It’s NOT just about people “not wanting kids.”
Turns out, so many aspiring parents are up against major barriers—financial, medical, social, and logistical. It’s not a lack of longing for parenthood, but a landscape full of hurdles that make the journey more challenging than ever before.
So, what’s really happening? And—if your dream is to have a family—what can you do in a world that sometimes feels like it’s working against you?
The Real Reasons Behind Low Fertility (And Why They Matter)
Let’s bust the biggest myth right now: The UN report shows that most people still want families! The problem isn’t desire—it’s access and support.
Here’s what the data (and real-life stories) tell us:
- Economic Pressures: Housing costs, unstable jobs, and expensive childcare make raising a child feel impossible for many.
- Healthcare and Fertility Gaps: Many couples and individuals face infertility, low motility, or medical conditions, but can’t afford or access traditional treatments.
- Changing Partnerships & Social Norms: Families look different today. LGBTQ+ couples, single parents, and non-traditional families are forging new paths but often encounter outdated systems not built for them.
- Emotional & Mental Load: The pressure to “do it all” while dealing with uncertainty, societal judgment, or personal struggles can feel overwhelming.
Sound familiar? If you’re nodding, you’re not alone. So many in the Nestful community have felt this too. But here’s where things get inspired.
Rising Above: Real Stories, Real Solutions
It’s 2025, and the world is full of people rewriting the script on parenthood. Some are bravely sharing their journeys, while others are quietly persevering in the background—but all are finding ways to build their own nests.
Meet Jamie & Alex
After years of being told “just relax and it’ll happen,” Jamie and Alex discovered Jamie was sensitive to most clinical products. At first, they felt hopeless. But then, they found new at-home options tailored to their needs. They embraced their path—on their own terms—and found both hope and community along the way.
Embracing Innovation for Change
If this is your story, or you see yourself somewhere in these challenges, there are new, empowering options emerging every day. At-home insemination kits, holistic wellness resources, and digital communities like Nestful are making it easier (and more affordable) for you to take charge of your family-building journey.
That’s where resources like MakeAMom’s expert guides and thoughtful, discreet at-home insemination kits come in. They aren’t just products—they’re a statement: You deserve choices that fit your reality. Whether you need a kit for low-motility sperm, frozen samples, or sensitivities like vaginismus, today’s innovations means you don’t have to do this alone (or break the bank doing it).
The Current Zeitgeist: Community Over Competition
Here’s the game-changer: The UN’s report isn’t just statistics—it’s a call to action for society to support everyone’s right to parenthood, however that looks. The 2020s have been about breaking silences, challenging rigid systems, and raising our voices together.
Now, more than ever, people are:
- Sharing their infertility journeys openly
- Building families through non-traditional paths
- Demanding affordable, accessible reproductive care
- Lifting each other up in online spaces (like Nestful!)
You are part of a massive, inspiring shift—toward possibility, hope, and solidarity.
If You’re Dreaming of a Family…
Don’t let headlines or tired stereotypes make you feel alone or less than. The truth is, wanting to be a parent is valid—no matter which path you take or what obstacles you face. And, as the world slowly wakes up to these realities, you have more support and options than ever before.
Your Next Steps
- Talk about your journey. The more we share, the more others feel seen and supported.
- Explore your options. From clinical to at-home solutions, the right fit for you exists—and is more accessible than you might think.
- Connect with others. Communities like Nestful are proof that together, we can move mountains.
Let’s rewrite the story together. Why do YOU dream of building a family—and what support do you wish existed? Share your hopes, your struggles, and your joys in the comments below. Someone out there is waiting to hear your story.