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Ever scrolled through Netflix, excited to dive into a new vibe-themed category, only to feel like something's... missing? That’s exactly how I felt when I stumbled upon Netflix’s new ‘Messy Girl Summer’ recommendation row. The idea? Celebrate the wild, imperfect, and unapologetically real side of summer. Sounds amazing, right? But as I glanced through the lineup, I couldn’t shake the feeling that some of my favorite, perfectly messy, wonderfully imperfect shows were nowhere to be found.

I recently read an engaging commentary by CNET's tech columnist (check it out here: I Think Netflix's New 'Messy Girl Summer' Category Missed a Few Titles, but I've Got You) that perfectly captures this sentiment. It got me thinking about what ‘messy’ really means—especially in our lives as women, moms, and hopeful parents.

The Beautiful Chaos of ‘Messy’

Let’s be honest. Life is messy. Whether you’re binge-watching a show, juggling the rollercoaster journey of home conception, or just trying to keep your plants alive (me, every summer), perfection is overrated. In fact, embracing the messiness often leads to growth, understanding, and the most memorable moments.

The ‘Messy Girl Summer’ theme aims to celebrate all that wild energy, the imperfect joy, the chaos of friendship, love, and self-discovery. But it’s not just about TV shows—it resonates deeply with those of us trying to create families outside traditional clinical settings, finding ways to nurture hope, patience, and sometimes, beautiful imperfection in our conception journeys.

Why Some Shows Fell Through the Cracks

Netflix’s lineup felt a bit too curated, missing the raw edges and authentic stories that truly embody the messy spirit. It reminded me of how mainstream solutions often overlook the nuanced needs of individuals and couples trying to conceive at home. Like how many people don’t know about accessible and empowering options such as MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits.

These kits—CryoBaby for frozen sperm, Impregnator for low motility sperm, and BabyMaker designed for those with sensitivities like vaginismus—are perfect examples of practical, thoughtful solutions that embrace complexities rather than ignoring them. They let people take control in the comfort of home, quietly working through the messiness of fertility while surrounding themselves with care and support.

Finding Your Perfect ‘Messy’ Match

If you’re craving shows that really get the wild and wonderful chaos of life, here’s a mini watchlist that channels that messy girl energy:

• “Call Me Kat” – Because who doesn’t love a fierce woman owning her mess with humor?
• “The Bold Type” – Friendships, career struggles, and love stories wrapped in bold choices.
• “Sweet Magnolias” – A small town filled with big emotions and even bigger heart.

And of course, don’t forget to give yourself permission to lean into the messiness of your own story—whether that’s navigating emotions, relationship ups and downs, or the practical side of your conception journey.

Embracing Imperfection Beyond the Screen

At the end of the day, it’s about connection—finding spaces and tools that honor every part of your journey, messy bits included. If you or someone you know is exploring the path of home conception, it’s worth checking out resources like those offered by MakeAMom’s discreet and effective home insemination kits. They provide a gentle, cost-effective approach to something that can feel complicated and overwhelming.

So here’s my challenge to you: What’s your messiest, most authentic summer vibe? How are you embracing imperfection in your life or family-building journey? Drop your favorite messy girl moments or show recommendations below—I’m all ears! And remember, sometimes the best stories are the ones that aren’t perfectly scripted.

Happy messy summer, friends! 🌻