I used to think getting back to my pre-pregnancy body was the ultimate goal — but I learned that being kind to myself was the real victory story.
If you’re a new mom, or soon-to-be one, you might’ve felt the pressure to “bounce back” after pregnancy. Society, social media, and well-meaning folks around us often set unrealistic expectations about shedding pregnancy weight fast and looking “perfect” again. But as Emily Ricketts, a personal trainer, recently shared in her candid article, those pressures can be exhausting and counterproductive. Instead, she found that giving herself grace and seeing postpartum fitness as a fresh start helped her embrace the challenge with strength and joy.
You can read her inspiring story here: I’m a personal trainer who gained over 50 pounds while pregnant. Being kind to myself made getting fit again much easier.
So, why does kindness matter so much?
It’s simple — pregnancy changes your body in incredible ways, both physically and emotionally. Expecting yourself to snap back immediately is like asking a caterpillar to become a butterfly overnight. Your body needs time, patience, and gentle care to heal and rebuild.
And that’s okay.
What really struck me about Emily’s story was how she embraced being a “beginner” again. She didn’t rush, didn’t punish her body, and instead, found motivation in the small wins — like regaining strength and enjoying movement. This mindset shift can actually make your postpartum fitness journey less stressful and more sustainable.
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Embracing the journey: health, fitness, and family planning
Whether you’re navigating postpartum fitness or fertility challenges, the biggest lesson here is about kindness:
- Be patient with your body’s timeline. Healing and growth don’t follow a strict schedule.
- Celebrate small victories. Each step forward, no matter how small, is progress.
- Seek support that fits you. From fitness coaches to fertility aids, find resources that resonate with your unique circumstances.
Remember, motherhood and health journeys aren’t one-size-fits-all. Personal stories like Emily’s remind us that strength comes not from rushing, but from resilience and self-love.
Want to join the conversation?
How do you approach postpartum fitness or the path to parenthood? Do you have tips or stories about embracing kindness through these life-changing experiences? Drop a comment below — your voice might inspire another hopeful parent or new mom.
Stay strong, be gentle, and keep moving forward. You’ve got this.
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