Why Netflix’s ‘Messy Girl Summer’ Missed the Mark — And What It Means for Your Fertility Journey

Posted on 28 July 2025 by Amelia Nguyen — 4 min

What if the chaos you’re experiencing isn’t a setback but a signpost to something amazing?

When I first saw Netflix’s new “Messy Girl Summer” category, I was intrigued. It’s a fresh way to celebrate stories that embrace imperfection, unpredictability, and yes, a little bit of beautiful chaos. But as a fan of the concept and someone deeply connected with the journey of building a family, I felt like some titles that truly embody messy, real, vulnerable experiences were missing.

This got me thinking about the messiness of the fertility journey itself — particularly for those who are stepping outside traditional clinical settings and choosing paths like at-home insemination. Just like Netflix’s attempt to capture a vibe, our reproductive journeys are anything but neat. They’re filled with hope, uncertainty, and moments of “what the heck just happened?” But that’s what makes them so profoundly personal and hopeful.

What Netflix Got Right About Messiness

The new “Messy Girl Summer” category is all about tearing down the polished image and embracing authenticity. It’s about those imperfect, raw moments that we often hide. That’s exactly what makes the category resonate — it’s relatable.

Yet, some of my favorite shows that highlight deep, compassionate, and often messy female experiences didn’t make the cut. It reminded me that even well-meaning efforts to capture real-life complexity can fall short, especially when the stories involve topics that society still whispers about, like fertility struggles.

The Messy Reality of Fertility

Let me share a little secret: fertility journeys are rarely linear or tidy. You might be tracking ovulation, managing emotions, testing options, and sometimes feeling isolated or misunderstood. It’s a rollercoaster of excitement and disappointment.

More people than ever are looking for alternatives to the traditional, often clinical route of fertility treatments. At-home insemination, for example, offers a way to embrace privacy, comfort, and autonomy. But it comes with its own set of questions and uncertainties. How do you even start? What products work best? What if I have unique challenges like vaginismus or need to use frozen sperm?

Enter MakeAMom: The Little-Known Hero for Your At-Home Journey

This is where a company like MakeAMom quietly changes the game. Their at-home insemination kits, such as the CryoBaby for frozen sperm, the Impregnator designed for low motility samples, and BabyMaker geared towards those with particular sensitivities, offer thoughtful, reusable, and discreet options. It’s like having a trusted companion that respects your privacy and understands your unique journey.

What’s remarkable is their average success rate of 67% — a beacon of hope for many who want to try without the pressure and cost of clinical interventions. Plus, the kits come in plain packaging, so your journey stays just yours.

Why This Matters More Than Ever

In a world where curated perfection floods social media and entertainment, seeing genuine, sometimes messy stories helps us breathe a little easier. Fertility is no different. Choosing to take control with at-home options lets you reclaim your narrative in a way that fits your lifestyle and comfort level.

Just like Netflix’s attempt to spotlight a new kind of summer experience, MakeAMom enables a new kind of family-building experience: one where you can be vulnerable, hopeful, and empowered all at once.

So, What’s the Takeaway?

Messiness is human. Your fertility journey isn’t supposed to be flawless — it’s a story uniquely yours.
You aren’t alone. There are resources and communities that understand and support you.
Options matter. Innovative at-home products like those from MakeAMom make fertility more accessible and private.

If you’re curious or considering at-home insemination, explore resources that prioritize your comfort and privacy without sacrificing effectiveness. And hey, if you want to geek out on Netflix’s “Messy Girl Summer” picks alongside real-life stories of empowerment, you now know where to look.

For a closer look at the category that inspired this reflection, check out the original article on CNET here.

Your Turn

What does “messiness” mean in your own experience? Have you found comfort in embracing imperfection during your journey to parenthood? Share your story below — sometimes, the best support comes from knowing we’re not alone in the mess.

Remember: It’s all part of the incredible, unpredictable, and deeply human path towards building your family. And sometimes, the best tools are the ones that come to you quietly, in plain packaging, ready to support your next step — like those from MakeAMom.

Would love to hear your thoughts!