When a House Can’t Hold: What a Flood in New Mexico Taught Me About Fertility and Resilience
Posted on 23 July 2025 by Amelia Nguyen — 4 min
Have you ever witnessed something so sudden and overwhelming that it completely shifts your perspective? That was me the other day, watching a video shared online — a house swept away by rushing floodwaters in New Mexico, leaving stunned onlookers frozen in disbelief. If you haven’t seen it yet, here’s the link: WATCH: House swept away by rushing floodwaters in New Mexico.
At first glance, you might wonder, what on earth does a house being swept away have to do with fertility? Stick with me here. Because life, fertility, and even the ways we try to build families are full of unexpected floods — moments when our plans feel out of control, swept away by circumstances bigger than us.
The Flood of Emotions in Fertility Journeys Trying to conceive can sometimes feel like standing outside in heavy rains without an umbrella. You hope for calm, but storms appear — be it unpredicted disappointments, medical challenges, or emotional fatigue. Watching that house float away reminded me that sometimes the structures we trust — including our bodies, our emotions, or even the systems we rely on — can feel vulnerable. And when they do, it’s terrifying.
Yet, resilience is in our nature. Just like communities rebuild after floods, and new foundations are laid, so too can our fertility journeys adapt and find new paths forward.
Finding Control and Comfort in Uncertain Times One thing I’ve learned — especially from organizations like MakeAMom — is the power of gentle, accessible solutions that empower you to take control in your own space and time. Their at-home insemination kits, designed with comfort and privacy in mind, help people who might feel overwhelmed by traditional clinical settings find a gentler path to parenthood.
Imagine the relief of having a discreet, reusable kit that suits your unique needs — whether working with low motility sperm, frozen samples, or physical sensitivities. That’s the kind of innovation that feels like building a sturdier shelter amid uncertainty.
Why Mind-Body Wellness Matters More Than Ever When my thoughts kept returning to the flood video, I realized that fertility isn’t just about biology; it’s deeply connected to how we handle stress, loss, and hope. Mind-body wellness practices — like mindfulness, gentle yoga, or even just giving yourself permission to breathe deeply — can be anchors in the storm.
Have you tried incorporating these into your routine? Sometimes the most powerful tool is a pause.
How Do We Rebuild After Life Sweeps Us Off Our Feet? Here are some steps that helped me—and might help you:
- Acknowledge the flood: Recognize the feelings of loss or fear without judgment.
- Seek safe spaces: Whether it’s a supportive community, a trusted friend, or a resource that respects your privacy and choices.
- Embrace gentle innovation: Explore tools and methods that respect your comfort, like at-home insemination options tailored to your unique needs.
- Cultivate resilience: Celebrate small victories and remember that rebuilding takes time.
In the End, We’re All Building Something Beautiful That house in New Mexico was taken by rushing waters, but what comes next is a story of courage — neighbors helping neighbors, rebuilding stronger. Your fertility journey can be the same. Sometimes the old structures fall away, making room for new ways of hope and family-building you might never have imagined.
So next time you feel overwhelmed, picture that moment by the floodwaters. Remember resilience isn’t about never falling — it’s about how you rise, rebuild, and find a new path forward with strength and grace.
What storms have you faced on your path, and how did you find your footing again? Share your stories below, and let’s build a community of hope together.