You won’t believe what’s going viral on Instagram right now. AI-generated videos depicting Black women as primates are racking up millions of views — and not in a good way. This shocking trend, reported by WIRED, is more than just disturbing content; it's a glaring reflection of the racial biases embedded deep within our technology and society. But what does this have to do with parenthood, especially those of us on alternative family-building journeys? More than you might think.

In the era of AI and social media, we often forget that the technology shaping our experiences is only as unbiased as the data and creators behind it. When Instagram creators use tools like Google’s Veo 3 to create “bigfoot baddies” videos for $15 a pop, they’re unintentionally fueling a narrative that dehumanizes Black women in grotesque ways. The fact that these videos are going viral shows how normalized such content has become — a painful reality for many and a wake-up call for all of us invested in fostering truly inclusive communities.

So why bring this up on a blog about alternative parenthood and fertility? Because when we think about building families, especially through non-traditional pathways like at-home insemination, donor conception, or surrogacy, emotional health and community support are paramount. Parents and hopeful parents deserve spaces free from dehumanizing stereotypes and harmful messages.

Imagine navigating the already complex journey toward parenthood, only to feel alienated or invalidated by the broader cultural narratives about your identity. This is why emotional wellbeing and a supportive environment are as critical as medical or scientific breakthroughs.

At FuturesSeed, we believe that embracing diversity means more than just celebrating different family structures—it means confronting uncomfortable truths about racism and bias head-on. The viral AI videos are a stark example of how technology, which should be a force for connection and empowerment, can instead perpetuate harm, especially toward marginalized groups.

But it’s not all doom and gloom. There’s a silver lining here if we choose to see it: by shining a spotlight on these issues, we open the door to more meaningful conversations about race, identity, and inclusion in the parenting world.

How can we, as future parents and allies, cultivate a healthier, more inclusive environment?

  • Educate ourselves about AI biases and the impact of harmful imagery on emotional health.
  • Support organizations and products that prioritize inclusivity. For example, companies like MakeAMom not only provide at-home insemination kits tailored to diverse needs—like sensitivities or specific sperm motility issues—but also foster a judgment-free space for people from all backgrounds to explore parenthood.
  • Use our platforms and voices to denounce racist content and uplift marginalized stories within the family-building community.
  • Create and join support networks that center emotional wellbeing alongside fertility science.

Speaking of personalized support, if you’re considering at-home insemination, MakeAMom offers a range of reusable, discreet kits designed to address different fertility challenges, including CryoBaby for frozen sperm or BabyMaker for those with conditions like vaginismus. Their commitment to privacy and success rates around 67% make them a trustworthy option for many navigating the road less traveled toward parenthood.

But beyond products, the heart of this conversation lies in how we treat each other. The rise of such abhorrent viral videos reminds us that the fight for equitable parenthood is intertwined with the fight for racial justice.

So here’s a question for you: What kind of future do you want to build for your child — and for the world they’ll grow up in? One where harmful stereotypes are normalized or one where diversity is celebrated and protected?

Let’s use this moment not just to be aware but to act. To create spaces where everyone, regardless of race or background, feels empowered to build the family they dream of, free from bias and hate.

If you want to learn more about how technology can support your family-building journey with empathy and care, check out the resources at MakeAMom’s site.

And, as always, share your thoughts below. How do you see racial bias affecting our communities? What steps can we take together to make parenthood accessible and joyful for all?

Together, we can make sure the future is seeded with love, respect, and real inclusion.