What if I told you the biggest lessons about parenthood start before your baby is even born?
I never expected to learn so much about being a parent before there was even a positive test. But this Father's Day, as I scrolled through the usual ads and sentimental posts, something totally clicked for me after reading this Business Insider article about MasterClass's Father's Day sale. Suddenly, I realized—sometimes, preparing for parenthood is just as much about learning as it is about love.
Here are the 5 most unexpected (and sometimes hilarious) lessons I learned on my journey to becoming a parent—before the baby even arrived.
1. You’re Always a Student—Even Without a Classroom
The MasterClass sale promised lessons from celebrities (hello, Gordon Ramsay and Malala!). It got me thinking: why don’t we talk more about parenthood as something you learn, not just something you do?
Whether it's learning to assemble a crib or wrapping your head around sperm motility numbers, my journey into alternative conception was packed with research, awkward questions, and the occasional late-night YouTube spiral. Guess what? Every "student" struggles sometimes, but that’s how we get better.
2. There’s No “One Size Fits All” Way to Become a Parent
Seeing all the MasterClass options reminded me: everyone’s path is unique. I used to think becoming a parent looked just one way. Turns out, that’s so last decade. (And honestly, a little boring!)
For me, exploring at-home insemination with a resourceful, science-backed approach opened doors I'd never even imagined. The more I learned, the more empowered I felt—like I was taking an elective in "Family Building 101."
3. The Tools You Choose Matter—A Lot
Let’s get real: It’s easy to be seduced by fancy, disposable products (parenthood has a lot of those). When I started comparing reusable at-home insemination kits, like the ones from MakeAMom (especially their CryoBaby, Impregnator, and BabyMaker kits), I realized thoughtful design and discretion really matter. Their kits work for so many unique situations (low motility! vaginismus! cryopreserved sperm!) and don’t scream “Look at me, I’m trying to make a baby!” on your doorstep.
Their reported 67% average success rate and plain, unbranded packaging made me feel understood—and a little less exposed. Because let’s be honest, sometimes you just want privacy while you’re literally making life happen.
4. Vulnerability is a Superpower
Here’s something nobody tells you: the emotional rollercoaster starts waaaay before diapers and midnight feedings. There were moments of doubt, frustration, and, yes, ugly-crying at 2am while watching other people’s success stories. But opening up—whether it’s to a friend, a partner, a support forum, or even a blog like this—helped me process and stay resilient.
If you’re on this road, don’t be afraid to share. Vulnerability bonds us, even across the wild web.
5. Father’s Day (and Every Day) Can Be for Everyone on the Journey
Scrolling through the MasterClass sale, I felt a pang—was this holiday just for “traditional” dads? But then I remembered: family doesn’t look just one way. Whether you’re a hopeful parent, a donor, a partner, or a cheerleader, your journey is real and worth celebrating.
Let’s expand the definition of who gets to be proud. This year, I bought myself a small treat (no apologies!) and texted love to everyone in my chosen family. Because preparing for parenthood—whatever your route—deserves a round of applause.
So, What’s the Real Secret?
I’m still learning (aren’t we all?), but here’s what I know: You don’t have to take a celebrity MasterClass to start your parenthood journey. Sometimes, you just need the right tools, honest information, and the courage to try—your way.
If you’re looking for resources for alternative conception (or just want to feel seen for all the ways families are being built in 2025), I recommend checking out the MakeAMom info hub for stories, guides, and product comparisons. Their approach made me feel less alone and way more confident.
What’s the most unexpected lesson you’ve learned while building your family—traditional or not? Share your story below. Let’s keep learning, together. ❤️