Is Marriage on the Brink? What That Means for Fertility and Family Building in 2025

Does marriage have a future? That question has been buzzing around more than ever lately, especially after reading the provocative article from The New Atlantis titled Does Marriage Have a Future?. As someone fascinated by the intersections between relationships, technology, and family building, I found myself deeply intrigued — and a bit challenged — by the ideas presented.

The article dives into how historic shifts—from the Industrial Revolution to the introduction of the birth control pill, and now to the rise of AI companions—are unbundling what marriage once offered as a ‘package deal.’ No longer is marriage the only or even primary framework for intimacy, parenting, and partnership. This shift is reshaping how we think about relationships and, crucially, how we approach fertility and starting families.

So, what does this mean for couples, singles, and anyone thinking about trying to conceive today?

First off, the traditional trajectory of “meet, marry, then have kids” is loosening its grip. People are increasingly choosing to build families outside of marriage or even without a partner. The why is complex—more individual autonomy, changing social norms, and yes, technology making options more accessible.

Speaking of technology, it’s worth noting how innovations have empowered those on their fertility journeys. For example, at-home insemination kits like those offered by MakeAMom have transformed how people conceive. Whether it’s using frozen or low-motility sperm or accommodating individuals with specific health considerations, these kits provide a discreet, effective, and affordable alternative to clinical fertility treatments. Imagine being able to attempt conception in the comfort of your own home, on your own terms, without the stress and expense of constant doctor visits.

This technological empowerment aligns with the broader trend the article highlights: unbundling previously inseparable aspects of relationships. Nowadays, you can find companionship, sexual fulfillment, parenting, and emotional intimacy through numerous avenues—not just tied to one institution like marriage.

But here’s where it gets interesting—and a bit complicated. While technology gives us options, it also raises questions about connection and support. Fertility journeys can be emotionally draining and isolating. Traditional marriage often provided a built-in support system for such trials. Now, with more diverse family structures and solo parenthood on the rise, building that emotional and practical support network requires intentional effort.

If you’re navigating this complex landscape, here are a few takeaways I’ve found helpful:

• Embrace flexibility in your definition of family. Your path might differ from the past, and that’s okay.
• Explore technology as a tool, not a fix-all. At-home insemination kits, fertility tracking apps, and telehealth can empower, but emotional support matters.
• Build your support system consciously. Whether friends, online communities, or professionals, don’t go it alone.

The future of marriage may be uncertain, but the future of building families? It’s wide open and bursting with possibilities. If you’re considering at-home conception, products like those from MakeAMom show how technology can be a game-changer, blending science and personal agency.

Ultimately, whether marriage remains central or not, what matters most is creating the family and life that feels right for you. How do you see marriage evolving in your own life? And how might that shape your journey toward parenthood? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

Note: For a thoughtful exploration of marriage’s trajectory, check out the full article here: Does Marriage Have a Future?.