Why One Act of Courage Can Change EVERYTHING on Your Fertility Journey (and How to Find Yours)
Have you ever felt like the odds were stacked against you, but you knew you just had to take a stand anyway?
Last week, the world watched as New York City mayoral candidate Brad Lander was arrested at an immigration court (see the video here). He wasn’t caught up in scandal—he was courageously escorting someone else through a terrifying situation, and he paid the price by being taken into custody himself. Immediately, social feeds lit up with support and debate, but one thing was crystal clear: small acts of bravery can send shockwaves, challenging the system and inspiring everyone who’s paying attention.
So, you might be wondering: What does a politician’s act of advocacy have to do with fertility, and especially your own path to parenthood?
More than you think.
The Hidden Power of Stepping Forward
Whether you’re navigating immigration courts or the labyrinth of fertility challenges, the courage it takes to step forward can be absolutely life-changing. People like Brad Lander remind us that we’re not powerless in the face of overwhelming systems. We can advocate for ourselves—and for others—even when we’re scared, uncertain, or feel completely alone.
If you’re on the journey to conceive and feeling that same tidal wave of anxiety and frustration, you’re not alone. For so many, the fertility world still feels stuck in red tape, outdated stigma, and uncomfortable clinics. But right now, from TikTok to Capitol Hill, people are demanding better—more accessible, empowering, and dignified ways to start or grow their families.
Opening Doors (Even When It Feels Impossible)
Let’s be honest: going through fertility struggles—especially at home—can feel isolating. Maybe you’ve faced awkward doctor’s visits, judgmental glances, or the crushing sense that your path is somehow “less legitimate.” The truth? The bravery it takes to pursue at-home insemination is its own kind of advocacy—a stand for autonomy, privacy, and hope.
Remember how Brad Lander walked a vulnerable person through those hostile courthouse doors? Every time you research, ask for help, or try a new fertility method, you’re forging your own brave path through uncertainty.
- You’re asking, “Why not me?”
- You’re pushing for solutions that fit your life.
- You’re demanding dignity, privacy, and control.
Innovation as Everyday Advocacy
Advocacy doesn’t always look like protests or headline-grabbing arrests. Sometimes, it’s a quiet revolution—choosing tools, products, and communities that rewrite the rules.
Take companies like MakeAMom. They’re not just shipping at-home insemination kits; they’re empowering people to take ownership of their fertility journeys. From their CryoBaby kit for low-volume or frozen sperm, to the Impregnator for low motility sperm, and the BabyMaker kit for users with sensitive needs or conditions like vaginismus, their focus is on inclusion and autonomy. And, let’s not forget—these kits are reusable, cost-effective, and shipped discreetly, giving users the privacy and confidence they deserve.
Their reported 67% success rate isn’t just a stat—it’s a testament to what’s possible when innovation and advocacy collide, opening doors for individuals and couples previously overlooked by traditional fertility medicine.
Why Your Story Matters More Than Ever
If recent headlines have taught us anything, it’s that silence keeps systems broken. Real change—whether in immigration courts or fertility care—starts with courageous individuals who refuse to accept “that’s just how it is.”
- If you’re quietly researching your options at 2am… you’re an advocate.
- If you’re speaking up with your partner about your needs and boundaries… you’re leading.
- If you’re sharing your story or supporting others online… you’re paving a path for those who feel voiceless.
Creating Change, One Brave Step at a Time
No, we don’t all need to get arrested to create change (thank goodness!). But we do need to keep pushing for a world where family building is accessible, supportive, and stigma-free.
Start with these bold, game-changing steps:
- Embrace your right to choose: Your fertility journey is yours, and you deserve solutions tailored to you.
- Leverage innovation: Don’t settle for outdated “one-size-fits-all” approaches. Seek out products and support networks like those at MakeAMom's resource center to empower your next steps.
- Share and connect: Your experiences—big or small—can inspire and encourage others feeling alone in the struggle.
Final Thought: What Will Your Brave Moment Be?
After watching Brad Lander’s stand in that Manhattan courtroom, here’s what I realized: Real change comes from small acts of courage, repeated again and again.
With so many new tools, communities, and empowered voices rising up in 2025, maybe your next act of bravery is just ahead. Will you take it?
Share your story, ask your questions, and join the conversation below. Because the journey to parenthood—and to a more just, inclusive world—begins with one bold step. Will yours be today?