The Unexpected Connection Between Pigeons on Planes and Your Fertility Journey

Ever feel like your fertility journey is totally out of your control—like there are pigeons flying around wreaking havoc just when you thought things were finally going smoothly?

I know, it sounds wild. But that’s exactly what popped into my head when I stumbled on this news story: two pigeons somehow made their way inside a Delta plane in Minneapolis, strutting down the cabin aisle, causing delays and chaos as passengers tried (and failed) to catch them. Can you imagine just trying to get to your destination—literally buckled in and ready for liftoff—only to have everything halted by two birds who decided “nope, not today”?

Suddenly, the whole ordeal felt weirdly familiar. If you’re trying to conceive, you probably know exactly what I mean. No matter how much we “plan” or prep, life (and sometimes our own bodies) throw us the same kind of curveballs—unexpected, uncontrollable, and usually just when we thought we were finally making progress.

When Life Throws You Pigeons

Raise your hand if you’ve ever: - Gotten your hopes up, only for your cycle to do the exact opposite of what you expected. - Prepped for the perfect insemination only for something random (work stress, travel, your favorite ovulation test breaking) to block your path. - Felt like everyone but YOU was taking off on their fertility journey while you’re stuck, waiting, wrestling with invisible “pigeons” that no one else seems to see.

Yep, you’re not alone. The news story made me laugh, but it also made me think: these bizarre, out-of-nowhere obstacles are a universal part of trying to build a family. It’s not just you—and it’s not just all in your head.

How Do You “Catch the Pigeons” on Your Fertility Flight?

Here’s the twist: the passengers (and flight crew!) spent ages trying to wrangle those rogue birds, but it wasn’t a strict checklist or frantic chasing that finally did the trick. Sometimes the pigeons just need time to calm down, or someone with a fresh perspective to see the way forward.

Translating that chaos to our fertility journeys, maybe the “solution” isn’t more stress, stricter routines, or endlessly refreshing your ovulation app. Maybe it’s about giving yourself grace for the randomness. Maybe it’s about pausing, breathing, and laughing at the absurdity—even when it’s hard.

Finding Control in the Chaos: At-Home Solutions That Empower

I’ll be honest: what helped me regain my sanity wasn’t forcing myself to “relax” (that phrase deserves its own blog post, am I right?), but finding practical, empowering things I could control. That’s where at-home solutions really shine. When I first discovered resources for home insemination, it was like someone tossed me a net instead of telling me to wait for the pigeons to fly out on their own.

Whether it was reading real stories, comparing kit options, or learning about innovations like the CryoBaby (for frozen sperm) or the BabyMaker (especially great if you struggle with sensitivity or conditions like vaginismus), it helped me feel active in a journey that so often feels passive. I could do it on my timeline, in my safe space, and yes—even laugh at myself a little along the way.

• Privacy and control: No need to shout your business from the rooftops. Plain packaging and clear guides kept things intimate and stress-free.
• Reusable and practical: Knowing I wasn’t just tossing money out the window each cycle was a huge mental relief.
• Realistic hope: With a reported average success rate of 67%, I didn’t feel like I was gambling alone in the dark. (And let’s be honest—when every little thing sets you back, real numbers matter.)

Let’s Normalize the Unexpected (and Maybe Even Laugh About It)

The truth is, everyone has pigeons in their plane. (Okay, maybe not literally, but you get it.) Sometimes they’re medical. Sometimes they’re emotional. Sometimes, it’s just a matter of trying to keep up while life keeps tossing feathers in your face.

If I could go back and whisper something to myself at the start of my TTC (trying to conceive) journey, it wouldn’t be another hack or hormone—just a reminder that the surprising, messy, “pigeon moments” are part of the story. You can’t always predict them, but you can choose how you react. Lean on your community. Find the tools that make you feel seen and empowered, like MakeAMom’s thoughtful kit options. And when chaos strikes (because it WILL), remember: sometimes all you need is a new perspective…and maybe a net.

Ready to take back some control—even if there are pigeons on your plane? Check out real user stories, expert-guided resources, and at-home insemination tools here. And if you’ve had your own “pigeon moment,” share it in the comments! Let’s support each other through the chaos, one wacky story at a time. 🕊️