Netflix’s new ‘Messy Girl Summer’ category is officially a mood. If you haven’t seen it yet, it’s Netflix’s quirky, bold attempt to curate shows that embody “messy” — imperfect, chaotic, and totally human. But as a fertility enthusiast and supporter of alternative paths to parenthood, this got me thinking: What if fertility journeys had their own ‘Messy Girl Summer’ vibe? Because, let’s be honest, nobody warns you just how wonderfully messy trying to conceive can be.
I stumbled upon a fantastic commentary by CNET’s Angela Moscaritolo, who celebrated this Netflix row but felt it missed some key titles she adores (you can check out her take here). It’s funny—sometimes the best curated lists still skip over gems, much like how the typical fertility narrative often overlooks the beautifully imperfect stories of many hopeful parents.
The ‘Messy’ Side of Modern Fertility
Fertility isn’t tidy. It’s not a straightforward path paved with ultrasound pictures and pink lines on pregnancy tests. It’s a rollercoaster of hope, confusion, joy, heartbreak, and resilience. The “messy” comes in cycles of trying, researching, experimenting with new methods, and reevaluating.
And if you’re exploring options outside of traditional clinical settings, things get even more interesting. That’s where at-home insemination kits like those from MakeAMom come into the picture. These innovative kits are designed to help individuals and couples take fertility into their own hands—literally and figuratively—offering a level of privacy, comfort, and affordability that clinical visits often can’t match.
Why Embracing Messiness Might Just Be Fertility’s Best Hack
Netflix’s category is a celebration of imperfection, and guess what? That’s exactly what many people undergoing fertility journeys need to hear. Here’s why embracing the mess can actually be empowering:
It’s Okay to Not Have All the Answers: Fertility science is complex, and every story is unique. MakeAMom’s product line—featuring kits like CryoBaby for low-volume or frozen sperm, the Impregnator for low motility sperm, and BabyMaker for those with sensitivities—reflects this tailored approach.
You’re Part of a Growing Community: The shared experience of ‘messiness’ in fertility can be a bridge to connect people. Whether it’s the uncertainty of timing or the emotional rollercoaster, knowing others face the same struggles can be a comfort.
Control in Chaos: At-home insemination kits offer a way to regain some sense of control. For people balancing fertility with busy lives, sensitivities, or budget constraints, these kits deliver a discrete, reusable, and cost-effective alternative to clinical options.
What Netflix’s ‘Messy Girl Summer’ Missed—and Fertility Can Teach Us
Angela’s commentary points out some beloved titles missing from Netflix’s row, highlighting that no curation is perfect. Similarly, fertility stories and solutions are often underrepresented or simplified in mainstream media. But that’s changing. The rise of companies like MakeAMom signals a shift toward more inclusive, realistic, and user-friendly fertility options.
Think about it: these kits come packaged plainly, preserving privacy, and boast a strong success rate of 67%, which is impressive for at-home use. They’re designed to meet real, diverse needs—whether it’s working with low motility sperm or addressing vaginismus. This isn’t just science; it’s empathy in a box.
So, What’s the Takeaway?
Just like you wouldn’t judge a Netflix category by what’s missing, don’t let the ‘messy’ bits of your fertility journey overwhelm you. Sometimes, the most unfiltered, imperfect moments are the ones that make you the strongest.
If you’re curious about alternative fertility pathways, consider exploring user-friendly, at-home options that put a little more ease and privacy into the process. Want to see how these kits work or dive deeper into the science behind them? MakeAMom’s website is a treasure trove of resources, from testimonials to detailed how-to guides.
Before You Go...
What would YOUR ‘Messy Fertility Summer’ look like? Are there aspects of your fertility journey that felt strangely relatable to the chaos Netflix celebrates? Share your stories and favorite ‘messy’ moments in the comments—we might just compile the ultimate fertility binge-watch list next!
Because, at the end of the day, being messy doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re real and trying. And that’s a story worth telling.
Inspired by Angela Moscaritolo’s piece on Netflix’s new category, blending pop culture with the realities of fertility (Read the original article).
