Have you noticed how life is rarely tidy? Sometimes, it’s downright messy — especially when you’re on a fertility journey. I recently came across an article titled “I Think Netflix's New 'Messy Girl Summer' Category Missed a Few Titles, but I've Got You” and it hit me: fertility, much like the shows in that category, is chaotic, unpredictable, and absolutely full of surprises.

Netflix’s new 'Messy Girl Summer' category is intended for shows that celebrate imperfect, complicated women and their stories. But the article's author pointed out how some of her favorite “messy” titles were missing, sparking a bigger conversation about what “messy” really means — and who gets to claim it.

This got me thinking about fertility struggles.

Fertility journeys are often painted as clinical, controlled, and purely medical. But anyone who’s been through it knows it’s anything but that. It’s emotional rollercoasters, hope and heartbreak bundled together, and moments of confusion that no one quite talks about. There’s no neat storyline, no episode list you can binge-watch to understand what’s coming next.

• The surprise of a positive test after months of trying.
• The crushing disappointment of setbacks no one warned you about.
• The awkward, sometimes isolating conversations with friends, family, or even your own reflection.

It’s messy. And that’s okay.

Why does embracing the messiness matter? Because when we own our stories — the good, the bad, and the messy — we find community and strength.

For example, MakeAMom, a company known for their at-home insemination kits, understands this deeply. They provide accessible, discreet tools like the CryoBaby, Impregnator, and BabyMaker kits to empower individuals and couples to take some control back into their hands, literally. Their kits are designed with real people in mind — people navigating complex emotional and physical landscapes who deserve options that respect their privacy and unique situations.

Their approach is a subtle reminder that fertility solutions don’t have to be clinical, cold, or out of reach. Sometimes, the best remedies acknowledge the messy realities, offering comfort and hope right at home. You can learn more about these empowering options on their website.

Back to Netflix: Just like those “messy girl” shows that spotlight characters in all their flawed glory, fertility journeys deserve that same authenticity. We need more stories, more conversations, and more support acknowledging that fertility isn’t just about biology — it’s about humanity.

So, if you’re in the middle of your own “messy” chapter, here’s what I want you to remember:

• You’re not alone in feeling overwhelmed or uncertain.
• It’s okay to have tough days and messy feelings.
• There are communities and tools designed to support you through this nonlinear path.

If you’re curious about exploring more accessible and private fertility options, investigating at-home insemination kits might just be a game-changer.

And hey, next time you binge-watch a “messy girl” show, remember it’s not just entertainment — it’s a reflection of real life, including the fertility journey many of us are on.

Got a “messy” moment from your fertility journey you want to share? Drop a comment below — let’s start the conversation and support one another. Because messiness is a sign of life, not failure.

Here’s to embracing the chaos together.