Ever find yourself binge-watching Netflix, and suddenly a new category pops up that feels oddly relatable? That was me recently when I stumbled upon Netflix’s new ‘Messy Girl Summer’ recommendation row. It’s fun, it’s chaotic, it’s unapologetically real. But as a fertility blogger, it also got me thinking about something deeper — the emotional rollercoaster so many face when trying to conceive.

If you haven’t seen it yet, here’s the gist: ‘Messy Girl Summer’ is a Netflix collection spotlighting shows about imperfect, complex female characters navigating life’s chaos with humor and vulnerability. It’s a celebration of the messy parts of womanhood that don’t get enough shine.

Reading a recent article on CNET titled “I Think Netflix’s New 'Messy Girl Summer' Category Missed a Few Titles, but I've Got You”, I was inspired by how these unapologetic narratives can resonate with so many of us — including those dealing with fertility struggles. Because let’s be honest: the fertility journey? It’s messy too.

The Messiness of Fertility Struggles

Trying to conceive isn’t always a neat and tidy path. There's hope, heartbreak, anxiety, thrilling moments of progress, and the crushing weight of disappointment all mixed together. It can feel isolating, confusing, and emotionally draining — a stark contrast to the happy-ever-after fairy tales we grew up with.

What Netflix’s ‘Messy Girl Summer’ does beautifully is normalize complexity. It reminds us that it’s okay to be imperfect, overwhelmed, and vulnerable. And that’s a vital message for anyone navigating fertility challenges.

Finding Your Own ‘Messy Girl Summer’ Moment

So, how can embracing this messy, authentic vibe help on your fertility journey? Here are some thoughts:

• Give yourself permission to feel it all. Whether it’s frustration, hope, sadness, or joy, these emotions are valid and deserve space.
• Let go of the pressure to be ‘perfect.’ Fertility struggles are tough enough without adding guilt or unrealistic expectations.
• Create safe spaces for honesty. Share your story with trusted friends, support groups, or online communities where you can be authentically you.
• Laugh through the chaos. Sometimes, humor is the best medicine to keep your spirit afloat.

How At-Home Solutions Can Help Simplify the Journey

Speaking of chaos, the fertility process often involves juggling appointments, treatments, and medical procedures — all of which can add to the emotional load. This is where companies like MakeAMom are quietly changing the game.

MakeAMom offers at-home insemination kits designed to give individuals and couples more control, privacy, and comfort when trying to conceive. Their kits, like CryoBaby for frozen sperm, Impregnator for low motility sperm, and BabyMaker for those with sensitivities, are reusable and discreetly shipped. Plus, their clients report a 67% success rate.

For many, this means less time in sterile clinic settings and more time focusing on self-care and mental wellness — aligning perfectly with fostering that ‘messy but real’ energy Netflix celebrates.

Adding Entertainment and Empathy to Your Routine

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the journey, why not take a page from ‘Messy Girl Summer’ and add a little fun and relatability to your downtime? Watch shows that embrace imperfection and complexity. Laugh at the characters’ messy moments, and remember you’re not alone in your own.

I’m curious — what shows or stories have helped you feel seen or understood during tough times? Share your favorites in the comments!

The Takeaway

Netflix’s new category might be about TV shows, but the underlying message is universal: It’s okay to be messy. It’s okay to struggle. And it’s okay to find joy amid the chaos.

Your fertility journey might look different from others, but embracing authenticity and seeking support — whether through community, entertainment, or innovative solutions like at-home insemination kits — can make all the difference.

So, why not treat yourself to some ‘Messy Girl Summer’ vibes, find moments of laughter, and take control in ways that feel right for you? Because at the end of the day, you deserve that kind of care and kindness.

For more info on discreet, user-friendly fertility options you can try at home, check out this resource from MakeAMom’s website.

What’s your messy summer story? Drop a comment below — let’s support each other through the ups and downs.