Why Waiting to Have Kids Could Be the Best Decision You Ever Make

I wanted to be a young mom. I told myself I’d be a parent by 25—or not at all. But life doesn’t always follow our plans. This honest confession from a recent Business Insider article titled “I wanted to be a young mom. I had my kids at 37 and 40, and I’m glad I waited.” resonates with so many people navigating the complex emotions around the timing of parenting. It’s a story that challenges the traditional timeline and redefines what it means to become a mom on your own terms—and it might just inspire you to rethink your own path to parenthood. 

Why does society put so much pressure on “having kids young”? We often hear about the “biological clock” ticking loudly and about how fertility declines with age. But isn’t there something powerful about the emotional, mental, and financial readiness that comes with waiting? Waiting allows women and couples to build stronger careers, nurture relationships, and prepare fully for the journey of raising kids.

In the article, the woman shares how despite her early goals, she found joy and gratitude in becoming a mother later—at 37 and then again at 40. The surprise? The wait didn’t diminish her happiness or her ability to be an amazing mom.

But here’s the catch: waiting doesn’t always make conception easier. That’s where modern solutions like MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits come in—a game-changing option for those who choose or need to conceive later or in non-traditional ways.

Imagine having the freedom to take control of your fertility journey from the comfort of your home, with discreet, reusable kits tailored to your unique needs:

• The CryoBaby kit for low-volume or frozen sperm.
• The Impregnator kit, designed to assist with low motility sperm.
• The BabyMaker kit, perfect for those with sensitivities or conditions like vaginismus.

These kits aren’t just about convenience—they’re about empowerment. MakeAMom reports an impressive average success rate of 67%, proving that you don’t have to sacrifice privacy or affordability to achieve your dream of parenthood.

Why does discreet packaging matter? Because for many, fertility is a deeply personal journey. Knowing your insemination kits arrive in plain packaging, without any identifying information, takes away another layer of stress. It respects your privacy and dignity at every step.

So, what can we learn from these stories and innovations?

• Your timeline is valid. Whether you conceive at 25 or 40, your journey is uniquely yours.
• Technology and science are your allies. With options like MakeAMom, getting pregnant at home is safer, smarter, and more accessible than ever.
• Embrace flexibility and hope. Fertility isn’t a one-size-fits-all, and it’s okay to explore alternatives that fit your lifestyle.

If you’ve ever felt pressured by a ticking clock or overwhelmed by the fertility industry, it’s time to take a breath and realize you have more tools and choices than ever before.

For more information about how at-home insemination can fit into your journey, explore MakeAMom’s innovative kits and resources. It might just be the encouragement you need to start—or continue—building the family you’ve been dreaming of.

In the end, becoming a mom later in life isn’t a setback—it’s a powerful statement of patience, resilience, and hope. What’s your story going to be?

We’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences—drop a comment and join the conversation. Because every motherhood journey deserves to be celebrated, no matter when it begins.