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Why Netflix’s New 'Messy Girl Summer' Missed the Mark—and What You Should Really Watch This Summer

Have you seen Netflix's new 'Messy Girl Summer' category yet? It’s the latest addition to their recommendation algorithm, designed to spotlight shows and movies centered around bold, carefree female leads (think chaos, confidence, and lots of fun). As a fan of media that celebrates women’s messy, complicated, and totally real lives, I was excited to dive in. But after giving it a spin, I have to admit—something felt off.

If you missed it, CNET's recent article titled I Think Netflix's New 'Messy Girl Summer' Category Missed a Few Titles, but I've Got You nails the exact unease I felt. The collection is catchy, but it skips over some of the absolute gems that perfectly capture what a messy girl summer should be about. So, let’s unpack this a bit.


What is 'Messy Girl Summer' Anyway?

At its core, 'Messy Girl Summer' is about embracing the imperfect, unpredictable parts of life with humor and heart. It’s about women who aren’t neat and polished but who are fiercely authentic. Netflix’s new category aims to curate this vibe—but if it’s missing your favorites, can it really deliver?

This got me thinking about the kinds of stories and experiences that matter most to us, especially when life itself can feel messy—like the journey to conception and parenthood. Just like those unpredictable narratives in the shows, many people find their fertility journeys anything but straightforward.


Speaking of Messy: Fertility Can Be Beautifully Complex

As someone deeply involved in the conversation around conception technologies through platforms like Conceptera, I know firsthand how messy the process can feel. Whether you’re navigating at-home insemination or just trying to understand your options, the experience can be overwhelming and emotional.

That’s why companies like MakeAMom are so important right now. They offer at-home insemination kits designed to fit various needs—whether you're dealing with low motility sperm, sensitivities, or frozen sperm samples. Their solutions empower individuals and couples to take charge of their fertility journey in the comfort of their own space without the stress of a clinical visit.

Just like the diverse stories of women in those 'messy' Netflix shows, every fertility story is unique. And having accessible, discreet, and reusable tools—such as MakeAMom’s CryoBaby, Impregnator, and BabyMaker kits—makes the process a little less daunting.


Back to Netflix: What Titles Should Be on Your Messy Girl Summer Watchlist?

Here’s where I had to jump in: Netflix’s list missed some absolute must-haves. These shows and movies don’t just depict messy girls—they celebrate them:

  • “Fleabag” – A razor-sharp look at a woman’s chaos, grief, and humor all rolled into one. It’s messy, it’s real, and it’s painfully funny.
  • “Russian Doll” – The ultimate messy girl who literally relives her worst day trying to get it right. It’s existential, hilarious, and heartbreakingly human.
  • “Girls” – While an HBO classic, it deserves mention for its raw portrayal of young women fumbling through life’s uncertainties.
  • “Shrill” – Body-positive, bold, and messy in the best way.

These stories remind us that life isn’t neat, and neither are the journeys we take—whether to self-discovery or parenthood.


Why Does This Matter?

Because sometimes, when we see messy girls on screen, it’s a reflection of ourselves. It’s a reminder that imperfection is okay. And when it comes to trying to conceive, that reminder can be a lifeline.

Fertility journeys are rarely linear, and if you’re exploring options like home insemination, having support and resources tailored to your experience makes all the difference. I love seeing companies like MakeAMom step into that space—not just selling kits, but offering a way to reclaim control and make the process less clinical and more personal.

So, whether you’re binge-watching your new favorite messy girl or taking your next steps on your own path, remember: the messy parts are what make the story worth telling.


What’s Your Go-To Messy Girl Summer Show?

I’m always looking for recommendations that capture the beautifully chaotic female experience. Have a favorite show or movie that Netflix missed? Drop it in the comments—I’m ready to binge and chat!

And if you or someone you know is navigating fertility, check out MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits—they might be a game-changer in taking back a bit of control in a messy journey.

Happy watching, and here’s to embracing the messiness—on screen and in life.

For a deeper dive into what’s missing from Netflix’s new category, be sure to check out the full article on CNET!

Posted on 21 July 2025 by Elena Moreno 4 min