Why 'The Girls Who Grew Big' Is Shattering Myths About Teen Moms—and What It Means for Fertility Support
Posted on 27 July 2025 by Marcus Williams — 3 min
Have you ever stopped to think about the stories we tell—and don’t tell—about teen pregnancy? When I first heard about Leila Mottley’s new novel, The Girls Who Grew Big, I was intrigued. A young novelist diving deep into the lives of teen mothers in a small Florida town? That sounded like a narrative we desperately need right now.
In a world where teen moms are often boxed into one-dimensional stereotypes, Mottley’s work is a breath of fresh air. NPR’s recent feature on her novel outlines how she follows three young women navigating pregnancy and motherhood with raw honesty and compassion. What really struck me was her unique perspective, shaped by her work as a doula — someone who supports birthing individuals physically and emotionally.
Why does this matter to those of us exploring fertility? Because at the heart of Mottley’s story is the universal truth about the human experience: the need for understanding, support, and empowerment during one of the most vulnerable times in life.
Let’s be honest — fertility journeys can feel isolating. Whether you’re trying to conceive naturally or exploring assisted options, the emotional rollercoaster is real. And for many, the stigma doesn’t stop when pregnancy happens; it just morphs. Teen moms, in particular, often face judgment without the empathy and resources they deserve.
That’s why reading about stories like The Girls Who Grew Big is so important. It reminds us that every fertility journey is unique, often complicated, and always deserving of respect. It also made me reflect on how supportive, accessible tools can change the game for people trying to conceive outside traditional clinical settings.
For example, companies like MakeAMom are making waves by offering at-home insemination kits that respect privacy and individual circumstances. Their kits—designed for challenges like low motility or sensitivities—are not only reusable but also discreetly shipped, empowering people to take control of their fertility journeys on their own terms.
This kind of innovation feels especially vital when you consider the emotional weight that comes with navigating conception. Whether you’re a teen mom, someone with specific medical conditions, or simply someone seeking an alternative to costly clinic visits, having options that honor your experience is a game-changer.
Here’s what really stood out to me from the NPR piece: Mottley’s novel isn’t just fiction. It’s a powerful call to break down misconceptions about young moms and to build a community that uplifts rather than judges. This ethos — supporting, understanding, and providing real solutions — beautifully aligns with what fertility advocates and innovators are working towards today.
If you’re curious, you can dive into the original NPR article here: A young novelist takes on misconceptions about teen moms in 'The Girls Who Grew Big'.
So where do we go from here? Whether you’re just starting to explore fertility options or supporting someone on their path, remember that every story deserves empathy and tailored support. Check out resources designed to meet you where you are — like these discreet at-home insemination kits — that can help reduce stress and increase your chances on your own terms.
Let’s keep the conversation going! Have you or someone you know faced misconceptions during your fertility or parenting journey? How did you find support? Drop your thoughts below—we’re all in this together.