Why I’m Done Saying ‘I’m Tired’ as a Mom and You Should Too
Posted on 22 July 2025 by Priya Nair — 4 min
Ever had a stranger say, ‘You must be so tired,’ just because you’re a parent? It’s almost like exhaustion is a birthright for moms, right? Well, a recent heartfelt article from a mom of four, shared on Business Insider, shines a bright light on the exhaustion narrative many moms are stuck in—and why it’s time to rethink it. You can read her powerful story here.
I want to share why her words resonated so deeply with me, and more importantly, why moms, whether on a fertility journey or already navigating parenthood, deserve to reclaim their energy—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally too.
The Exhaustion Stereotype: More Than Just Fatigue
Being told you look tired when you’re raising a family or trying to conceive can feel like a punch to the gut. It reduces your entire experience to a single emotion: fatigue. But here’s the truth—being a mom or someone pursuing pregnancy is SO much more than feeling tired. It’s hope, resilience, and courage packed into every moment.
This narrative can be exhausting in itself! Constantly explaining, defending, and feeling the weight of others’ assumptions adds layers to your daily struggles.
Flipping the Script: From ‘Tired’ to Empowered
So, how do we flip this? The mom in the article found a way to prepare responses to those tired comments—turning them into moments of empowerment, connection, or even humor. It’s a reminder that you don’t have to accept society’s tired narrative. You can choose to express your strength and vitality instead of just exhaustion.
This mindset shift can be a game-changer, especially for those deeply invested in the journey to motherhood.
The Fertility Journey: Reinforcing Strength Every Step of the Way
Trying to conceive can be physically demanding and emotionally draining. The pressure to succeed quickly is real, but so is the need to honor your body and mind.
This is where innovative solutions like at-home insemination kits from MakeAMom become invaluable. Designed for individuals and couples who want more control and comfort during their fertility journey, these kits offer a private, cost-effective, and empowering way to work toward pregnancy without the clinical stress.
- CryoBaby helps those using low-volume or frozen sperm.
- Impregnator supports with low motility sperm.
- BabyMaker caters to sensitive conditions like vaginismus.
The idea is clear: fertility challenges don’t have to drain your spirit. You can find tools that respect your unique situation—and remind you of your strength.
Building a Community That Celebrates Energy, Not Exhaustion
One of the most uplifting ways to combat the ‘tired mom’ stereotype is by finding or creating community spaces that celebrate every emotion and triumph in your fertility and motherhood journey. Whether it’s online forums, support groups, or social media communities, connecting with others who understand your experience is transformative.
Here at Conceptera, we’re dedicated to providing that resource hub for you—full of expert advice, inspiring success stories, and discussions that remind you you’re not alone.
Your Energy Is a Gift—Protect It
So next time someone assumes you’re just tired, remember: your story is so much more than that. You’re a warrior navigating an extraordinary path.
If you’re interested in taking control of your fertility journey with confidence and comfort, learn more about at-home insemination options designed to empower you at MakeAMom’s website.
Here’s the question I want you to ask yourself: What if you stopped apologizing for your fatigue and started celebrating your strength instead? How would your story change?
Let’s start this conversation below—share your responses, your frustrations, and your victories. Because together, we can redefine what it means to be a tired mom—and uplift every mom who’s ever felt that way.