Why Following Your Own Road in Fertility is the Most Empowering Choice You’ll Make

Posted on 22 July 2025 by Marcus Williams — 4 min

Ever felt like the path to becoming a parent doesn’t come with a map? You’re not alone. I recently came across a beautifully raw and honest article by Maegan titled “Love My Way, it’s a New Road… I Follow Where My Mind Goes”. It struck a chord with me—and I think it will with you too—because it’s about breaking free from expectations and finding your own way, especially in the incredibly personal world of fertility.

Maegan’s story—starting with something as simple as altering a white dress to fit her comfort and identity—reminds us that sometimes the traditional fit just isn’t right, and that’s okay. Fertility can feel the same way: the “standard” clinical routes aren’t always accessible, comfortable, or financially feasible for everyone, especially in the LGBTQ+ community.

So what does following your own road in fertility look like? For many, it’s discovering alternatives that put control and comfort in your hands. This is where at-home insemination comes in, changing the game for people who want to try a different way to conceive, one that respects privacy, flexibility, and dignity.

Why consider at-home insemination?

It’s personal and private. No waiting rooms, no uncomfortable clinic appointments.
It’s cost-effective. Medical fertility treatments can be prohibitively expensive; at-home kits offer a more affordable alternative.
It’s adaptable. Whether you’re dealing with low sperm motility, frozen samples, or sensitivities like vaginismus, there are kits tailored specifically for your needs.

For instance, MakeAMom offers a trio of kits designed to meet various challenges: CryoBaby for frozen or low-volume sperm, Impregnator for low motility, and BabyMaker for those with physical sensitivities. Plus, their kits are reusable and discreetly packaged, meaning the process can be as low-key or as involved as you want it to be.

But it’s not just about the technical side—it's about the mindset shift. Like Maegan’s choice to cut open a dress to make it fit her, choosing an unconventional fertility path is about empowerment, control, and self-love. It’s about saying, “This is my journey, and I get to define how it looks.”

Still wondering if this can really work for you? The average success rate reported by MakeAMom users is an impressive 67%. That’s a powerful reminder that alternatives don’t mean compromising on hope or dreams.

And it’s not just about the physical aspects of fertility; the emotional rollercoaster can be just as intense. Being able to administer insemination at home can reduce stress and anxiety, giving you a sense of calm and control at a time when it’s most needed.

Here’s a quick checklist to see if at-home insemination might be the right fit for your fertility journey:

Do you want a more private, comfortable way to try to conceive?
Are you looking for a cost-effective alternative to clinical treatments?
Do you or your partner have specific reproductive challenges that require specialized tools?
Would you appreciate a reusable system that respects your lifestyle and values?

If you answered yes to any of these, exploring options like those offered by MakeAMom could be a game-changer.

At the end of the day, your fertility journey is YOURS. There’s no one-size-fits-all, and the roads less traveled often lead to the most meaningful destinations. Maegan’s story is a beautiful reminder that sometimes the best thing you can do is follow where your mind—and heart—take you, even if it means cutting up a dress or trying a method that feels a little unconventional.

So, what’s your road look like? Are you ready to follow it on your own terms? I’d love to hear about your experiences, challenges, and the small victories that make this journey uniquely yours. Share in the comments or reach out—we’re here to support each other on every twist and turn.

Your path to parenthood might just start with one brave step—your own road, your own way.