Why Netflix’s ‘Messy Girl Summer’ Forgot to Include These Must-Watch Titles (And What That Taught Me About Fertility Journeys)

Ever scroll through Netflix, excited for a new category, only to feel a little let down? That’s exactly how I felt when I stumbled on Netflix’s freshly minted ‘Messy Girl Summer’ collection — a nod to chaotic, carefree vibes that many of us secretly (or not so secretly) live for. But as a fan, I couldn’t help but notice a few glaring omissions of titles that perfectly capture that “messy” energy. (If you want the full scoop on which shows were missed, check out this CNET article.)

That little Netflix moment got me thinking: life — and especially journeys like fertility and conception — is messy too. There’s no perfectly curated playlist of moments, no seamless, flawless storyline. It’s a mix of hope, anxiety, joy, and yes, sometimes frustration.

The Messy Truth About Trying to Conceive at Home

When I first considered at-home insemination, I was overwhelmed by options — a rabbit hole of products, advice, and stories that promised a “simple” solution but rarely talked about the real highs and lows. It felt like stepping into a world that wasn’t crafted to feel tidy or glamorous. There were moments I felt empowered, and others when uncertainty crept in.

One thing that made a world of difference was discovering MakeAMom’s insemination kits. They’re tailored to different needs — whether you’re handling low-volume or frozen sperm (CryoBaby), working with low motility sperm (Impregnator), or managing sensitivity issues like vaginismus (BabyMaker). What I appreciated most? These kits are reusable and cost-effective, which means less waste and more freedom to try when the time feels right — no pressure, no rush.

Why Being “Messy” Is Actually a Superpower

Just like those shows that Netflix missed, fertility journeys are rarely neat or predictable. But here’s the beautiful part: the messiness means growth. It means resilience. Imagine a summer where you let go of perfection and expectations — embracing every twist and turn of your path. That’s exactly what the ‘Messy Girl Summer’ spirit embodies, even if the category doesn’t include every title it should.

  • It’s okay to feel vulnerable. Talking openly about fertility challenges can feel taboo, but normalizing this messiness can be so freeing.

  • Mistakes and retries aren’t failures. Using reusable insemination kits like MakeAMom’s means you have the flexibility to try again without guilt over wasted resources.

  • Support is everything. Whether it’s from friends, partners, or online communities, sharing your story helps break down the stigma and builds connection.

Bridging Tech, Care, and Real Life

Netflix’s attempt to curate a vibe reminds me how important it is that fertility tools don’t just work technically, but also respect the emotional journey. MakeAMom’s discreet packaging and user-friendly designs offer that balance — supporting intimate efforts without added stress or embarrassment.

A Call to Embrace Your Own Messy Journey

If you’ve been feeling alone in your path toward parenthood, remember this: there’s strength in imperfection. Whether you’re navigating at-home insemination or just trying to wrap your head around fertility options, your story matters — mess and all.

Want to dive deeper? Check out resources tailored to guide you through every step at MakeAMom’s website — a place that embodies the idea that at-home conception isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being you.

So, what’s your messy girl summer story? Whether it’s fertility, self-discovery, or just embracing life’s chaos, share your thoughts below — because sometimes, the messiest journeys make the most unforgettable stories.