Confession: I absolutely lost it when I saw Meghan Markle’s twerking pregnancy video. Not because I’m a superfan or a secret twerk enthusiast (okay, maybe a little), but because of the wild conspiracy theories it unleashed—again.

In case you missed it, Meghan shared a never-before-seen clip of herself and Prince Harry, joyfully bopping and shaking in hopes of bringing on labor just before their daughter Lilibet’s birth. People loved it, but, predictably, the internet’s rumor mill spun out—fast. The latest? That Meghan never actually gave birth at all. Seriously, can we talk about why fertility and pregnancy are still shrouded in so much myth, misinformation, and suspicion?

If you’re navigating your own fertility journey—maybe with a partner, maybe solo—it can feel like every milestone is under a microscope, especially now with celebrity pregnancies blasted across headlines. But why do these weird myths pop up in the first place? And what can we do to separate fact from fiction?

How Did We Get Here? The Celebrity Bump Spectacle

Let’s be honest: we’re obsessed with celebrity pregnancies. The baby bumps, the “glow,” the creative gender reveals… and, apparently, how someone twerks with a full-term belly. But behind the hype, there’s also a darker side: doubt, judgment, and wild conspiracy theories. The Meghan Markle twerk video—covered here on Bored Panda—just reignited whispers about surrogacy and “fake” pregnancies.

Why do these theories go viral? Maybe because pregnancy, even in 2025, is still treated like a mysterious process, hidden behind closed doors, and surrounded by etiquette about what’s “appropriate.”

Myth-Busting: What We Get SO Wrong About Fertility & Pregnancy

We might laugh at the wilder claims, but here’s the truth: outdated (and sometimes shocking) myths about conception and birth still sneak into everyday conversations. Let’s break down a few:

• “Real” pregnancies must look or behave a certain way.
• Fertility is an all-or-nothing game: you’re either lucky or you’re not.
• If you need help conceiving, you’ve done something wrong.
• Getting pregnant at home isn’t as “legit” as a doctor’s office.
• Reusable fertility tools can’t be as effective as disposables.

Sound familiar? If so, you’re not alone.

The Realities: Modern Fertility, Real People, Real Success

What Meghan’s video should remind us is that there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to making a baby. Whether you’re twerking, journaling, or surrounded by ovulation tests and insemination kits, everyone’s path looks a little (or a lot) different.

That’s why it’s so refreshing to see innovation and honesty in the fertility world. Take MakeAMom’s resource hub—it’s packed with info, personal stories, and new tools for home insemination. Their reusable kits (like CryoBaby for frozen sperm, or BabyMaker for those with sensitivities) aren’t just cost-friendly; they give people choices outside the typical clinical setting. And with an average 67% success rate, these aren’t just gimmicks—they’re game-changers for regular folks.

But Wait—Doesn’t the Drama Hurt Real Families?

Absolutely. When public figures are called out for not “really” being pregnant, it sends a message: if you’re not doing things the ‘traditional’ way, your experience is less valid. That hurts. For people using home insemination kits, IVF, surrogacy, or anything outside the so-called ‘norm,’ the judgment and suspicion can be really isolating.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if we championed all paths to parenthood—with real talk and plenty of support?

Let’s Make Room for Every Kind of Fertility Story

What did Meghan do in that video? She danced, she celebrated, she owned her moment. If you’re on your own conception journey, maybe you’re not posting viral videos, but you are crafting your own story—one that matters just as much.

So here’s my two cents: don’t feed the trolls, but don’t be afraid to bust the myths either. Share what feels comfortable for you. Seek out communities and brands that value transparency, privacy, and empowerment—especially ones (like this one) that know how varied and very real every fertility journey can be.

Want to join the myth-busting revolution? Share your thoughts in the comments: What’s the wildest fertility myth you’ve heard (or believed)? Would you ever try a twerking-induced labor dance? Or are you more about science, kits, and quiet hopefulness? Let’s rethink what a ‘real’ conception story looks like—together.

Because the only thing truly unbelievable about fertility… is how many ways there are to make a family.

Have you ever felt like everyone online is pregnant EXCEPT you?

I was scrolling through my feed last week when I saw the headline: Vanessa Bryant Denies Pregnancy Rumors With Help From Rihanna. My first reaction? A weird mix of eyeroll, envy, and that anxious little voice whispering, “Why isn’t it happening for me?”

Let’s be honest—rumors about celebrity pregnancy are everywhere. But what gets lost in the viral memes and clickbait headlines is how these stories actually make real people like us feel, especially if you’re navigating the rollercoaster that is trying to conceive.

Why Do Pregnancy Rumors Hit So Hard?

If you’re on a fertility journey, whether solo or with a partner, every celebrity baby bump rumor can feel like a personal jab. It’s not just FOMO—it’s a deep wish for your own happy announcement. When Vanessa Bryant had to use a Rihanna meme to shut down pregnancy speculation, I couldn’t help but think: why is society so obsessed with other people’s reproductive status?

Here’s what’s wild:

• Social media makes it feel like everyone’s either expecting or speculating.
• The line between “celebrity news” and “personal trigger” gets blurry.
• These viral rumors unintentionally reinforce the idea that getting pregnant is easy, effortless, and (literally) everyone’s business.

But the truth? For many of us, the road to pregnancy is anything but straightforward, and those rumors can sting more than we like to admit.

The Real Impact: More Than Just Annoying Headlines

I need to say it: It’s okay if seeing these stories makes your heart drop. You are not alone. Here’s how I—and so many others—feel when bombarded by pregnancy news or baseless rumors:

• Self-doubt creeps in: “Am I broken?”
• Pressure builds: “Should I be doing more?”
• Mental fatigue sets in: Another reminder that your journey isn’t matching up to the social media highlight reel.

And when the news isn’t even true, like with Vanessa Bryant, it feels almost insulting—turning a deeply personal milestone into public gossip fodder.

Opening the Loop: What Can We Actually Control?

After my initial meltdown, I realized something important. I can’t control the headlines, or who’s speculating about what. But I can control how I react, and where I get my support.

Do you want to know the best way to keep your peace while stuck in the Instagram pregnancy rumor vortex? Create your OWN narrative.

• Follow accounts and hashtags that inspire and educate, not trigger.
• Build a community that supports your journey, in all its messy, beautiful glory.

Game-Changer: Safe, Private Paths to Parenthood

Let’s talk about a support system that gets how overwhelming this world can be. That’s why I love what companies like MakeAMom’s home insemination kits offer. Instead of feeling scrutinized or pressured by outside noise, you get:

• Privacy (seriously, their packaging is super discreet—no nosy neighbors!)
• Options tailored for unique needs (low motility sperm, sensitivities, and more)
• Empowerment to take the next step on your own terms, not the internet’s.

Reading testimonials of real people—many who faced years of anxiety fueled by social pressure—finding success and peace with at-home options made me realize: you don’t have to let the rumor mill dictate your journey.

Breaking the Silence: Let’s Change the Conversation

Imagine if we celebrated every path to parenthood, not just the ones that get clicks. What if, instead of whispering about who “might” be pregnant, we asked, “How can I support you?”

Let’s be real—this year, privacy and authenticity are more valuable than ever. Whether you’re considering insemination at home, or just trying to tune out the noise, know this: your experience matters, rumors or not.

Your Turn: What Would You Say to the Internet?

Ready to stop letting viral stories dictate your emotions? Here’s my challenge: the next time you see yet another pregnancy rumor, picture yourself sending a Rihanna meme—just like Vanessa did—and saying, “Not today, internet!”

How have celebrity stories affected your own fertility mindset? What boundaries have you set to protect your peace?

Share your story in the comments, or tag a friend who needs a reminder that THEIR path is worth celebrating. Let’s rewrite the narrative—together.