Have you seen Netflix’s new 'Messy Girl Summer' category yet? It’s supposed to be a fun, bold celebration of chaos and imperfection — a cinematic shrug to all the polished, “perfect” summer vibes we’re usually blasted with. But here’s the thing: like many of us navigating the messy, unpredictable world of fertility, the collection feels a bit incomplete. Some of the best “messy” titles didn’t make the cut, and it got me thinking about how much we celebrate imperfection in some spaces, but still struggle with it in others — especially our fertility journeys.
If you haven’t read the commentary by CNET’s reviewer, they perfectly capture the vibe. Netflix tried to serve up a fresh spin, but as a fan of the category, they couldn’t help but feel the lineup missed some essential titles that really embody the spirit of “messy.” You can check it out here: I Think Netflix's New 'Messy Girl Summer' Category Missed a Few Titles, but I've Got You.
So, what does any of this have to do with fertility? Well, stick with me.
If you’ve ever been on a fertility journey — whether it’s natural attempts, clinical consultations, or alternative approaches — you know it’s rarely a clean, straightforward path. It’s filled with hope, setbacks, emotional rollercoasters, and often a lot of waiting and wondering. Just like the “messy girl summer” vibe, embracing the chaos and uncertainty of fertility can be liberating and empowering.
That’s why at-home fertility solutions are gaining so much traction. They invite people to take control in a private, comfortable setting — imperfect as it may be — rather than stressing over sterile clinical environments or expensive, intimidating treatments.
One of the pioneers in this space is MakeAMom, a company that offers discreet, reusable insemination kits designed specifically to make the process easier, affordable, and less clinical. The beauty here? These kits acknowledge that everyone’s fertility journey looks different.
They offer specialized kits for different needs:
This kind of innovation feels like a breath of fresh air in a field often bogged down by cost, complexity, and stigma.
A huge plus about MakeAMom’s approach is how they package their products—plain, discreet, without identifying information. For anyone juggling privacy concerns or the emotional weight of fertility challenges, this is huge. It’s about taking control, on your own terms, in your own space.
And with reported success rates averaging 67%, it’s not just about convenience — it’s about results.
Netflix’s “Messy Girl Summer” reminds us that life is not tidy — and that’s okay. We don’t need every part of the journey to be polished or perfect. Same goes for fertility. You don’t have to do it the way it’s always been done. You don’t have to only rely on clinics or expensive procedures. Embracing messiness can mean embracing alternative options that fit your unique needs, like at-home insemination.
It’s a reminder to be kind to yourself. To be open to unconventional paths. To find joy and empowerment even when things don’t look picture-perfect.
If you’re reading this and feeling overwhelmed by the idea of fertility treatments, or the stigma around trying at home, remember: your journey is YOURS. Whether it’s with a gentle touch from the BabyMaker kit or navigating low motility with the Impregnator, there’s no “one right way.”
The messiness, the unpredictability, the hope — it all makes your story uniquely powerful.
So, what’s the takeaway here? Just like that Netflix category missed some iconic titles, it’s easy to overlook the messy, imperfect, but deeply human parts of fertility journeys. But those are the parts that matter most.
If you’re exploring alternative fertility options, I encourage you to check out resources that embrace this reality — like MakeAMom’s at-home insemination kits. They offer practical, compassionate tools that put you back in the driver’s seat.
What about you? How have you embraced the “messy” parts of your fertility story? Are you open to exploring at-home options? Drop a comment below or share your thoughts — sometimes, the best support comes from a community that understands the beautifully imperfect journey.
Remember: life, love, and fertility rarely come neat and tidy — and that’s what makes them so real, and so worthwhile.
Dive deeper into embracing your unique fertility path, and maybe find your own ‘messy girl summer’ moment, right from the comfort of home.
Ever scrolled through Netflix, thinking, ‘Where’s my kind of messy?’ Well, apparently, Netflix thinks they’ve nailed it with their new 'Messy Girl Summer' category. But if you peek at the article by CNET, you’ll see it’s not quite the chaotic, unapologetically imperfect vibe we crave. Some favorite messy titles got left behind. That got me thinking... what if fertility journeys had their own 'Messy Girl Summer' moment? Because let’s face it—fertility is rarely neat and tidy. And the way we approach it is evolving faster than Netflix’s algorithm can keep up.
Let’s unpack this mess—and discover how new at-home options are making fertility more accessible (and way less clinical).
Fertility isn’t a straight line. It’s a wild ride full of emotional rollercoasters, embarrassing questions, and moments that don’t quite fit the