Hidden No More: How Senior Lesbian Couples Are Redefining Love and Parenthood at Every Age

What if love and the dream of parenthood never fade with age — they just get bolder?

That’s exactly the powerful message behind Morgan Lieberman’s stunning photo and film project, "Hidden Once, Hidden Twice," which captures the lives of senior lesbian couples across the U.S. After decades of living their love lives quietly—sometimes even in silence—these couples are now stepping into the light, showing us all that it’s never too late to live authentically and dream of growing a family.

If you haven’t seen the photos yet, they’re worth a click: Hidden Once, Hidden Twice on NPR. The images are a vivid reminder that the LGBTQ+ community’s path to parenthood is as diverse and dynamic as the couples who walk it.

Why Does This Matter for Parenthood?

For many LGBTQ+ individuals and couples, especially those who are older, the journey to having children can feel like a labyrinth of challenges. Medical procedures, societal expectations, and costs often add layers of complexity. But here’s the twist: the options have never been more accessible or empowering.

Cue at-home insemination kits — a game-changer for many couples wanting to take control of their fertility journey without the intimidation of clinical settings.

Enter MakeAMom: Parenthood on Your Terms

Companies like MakeAMom are pioneering this shift. Their at-home insemination kits, like CryoBaby, Impregnator, and BabyMaker, cater to various needs—from low motility sperm to conditions like vaginismus—allowing individuals and couples to try conceiving in the comfort and privacy of their own space.

And here’s the kicker: their kits are reusable, discreetly shipped (hello, privacy!), and cost-effective compared to disposable alternatives. Their reported 67% success rate speaks volumes about how technology and innovation are reshaping family-building — especially for the LGBTQ+ community where traditional routes might not have fit.

Breaking Barriers: Age, Orientation, and Parenthood

You might be wondering: How does all this intersect with the stories of these remarkable senior couples?

Well, Lieberman’s project makes it clear that love and family-building don’t have an expiration date. Many in this community are embracing new technologies and modern options to pursue parenthood later in life — something that was nearly impossible or socially impossible for previous generations.

Whether it’s choosing insemination kits or exploring adoption and surrogacy, these couples prove there’s no single formula for family. The beauty lies in creating your own path.

What Can We All Learn from Hidden Once, Hidden Twice?

  • Visibility matters: Seeing these couples thrive inspires others to embrace their journey, no matter the obstacles.
  • Love is timeless: Age is just a number when it comes to dreaming of and welcoming children.
  • Innovation empowers: Tools like MakeAMom’s kits put the power in your hands, making parenthood more attainable.
  • Community is strength: Sharing stories, resources, and support can dismantle stigma and isolation.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you or someone you know is navigating an LGBTQ+ path to parenthood—no matter the age—remember that the landscape is evolving rapidly. From inspiring stories to innovative tools, support is within reach.

Why not explore more about these groundbreaking insemination options and join a community that champions your unique journey? After all, the dream of family is universal, and with resources like MakeAMom, it’s becoming more attainable than ever.

So, what’s stopping you from writing your own story of love, visibility, and parenthood? Share your thoughts or stories below — let’s keep this conversation alive and thriving!


Inspired by Morgan Lieberman’s moving project and supported by insights from the pioneering MakeAMom at-home insemination kits.